missinglink Posted January 2, 2015 Posted January 2, 2015 So a little over 3 months ago I broke up with my girlfriend of 3.5 years. I was trying to fix an issue of my own (which didn't work so now I'm going to go to a psychiatrist). Over the past 3 months however, she had apparently started talking to some guy and ended up going over to his apartment and got with him (don't think they had sex though). But she told me the next day and said she felt horrible. She even texted him she couldn't talk to him anymore. What bothered me the most about this was that we had already started talking again to try and fix things and get back together. I had a friend (female) that helped me out since it really threw me off and we ended up being really close to each other as friends. One night we were hanging out and we made out, but I pulled away after a minute and said that we should just stay friends. She was fine with that. However, I was afraid my ex would think I'm a hippocrit if I told her, so I had a hard time telling her and just put it off. I knew though that if I were to ask her out again, I would most definitely tell her about what happened beforehand. There was a snag in that plan though. My friend that I kissed posted a picture a few weeks after we kissed from the day that we kissed and had a little heart as the caption. My ex got wind of this and was far from cool with it. I texted my friend and told her that I love my ex and my ex saw the message. My ex hasn't blocked me but tries to get me off the phone after a couple of minutes if I call, so I stopped bugging her to let her cool off. However, I did ask her if she would at least consider giving me another chance once the emotions settled and she said sure. I know she still loves me and the only issue is her trusting me after that. Do you think that I might have another chance with her once she is able to forgive me?
Chi townD Posted January 2, 2015 Posted January 2, 2015 Hmmm.... you weren't together. You discover that she spent the night at some dudes house and you kissed another girl. And who has a right to be mad at who?
rango9212 Posted January 2, 2015 Posted January 2, 2015 Dude I went through a break up as well and loved this girl so much I wanted her back so badly. But in your case you two need to understand that what happened between the two of you happened outside the relationship. And you guys have to just forgive and forget because when you guys go back together you're starting afresh. So no more going back to old memories that were mistakes because that will just lead to heartaches and back re-enactment of the painful history. The site above actually helped me a lot in winning her back so I'm putting it there if you're really serious about winning your girl back and if not well I hope my reply helped you in some way....
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