mortensorchid Posted January 3, 2015 Posted January 3, 2015 You met him on Tinder, what do you expect? It's not as crazy as Grinder, but the technology is the same and the intent is the same. My one and only experience with it left me cold, don't bother and move on. 1
kevintech Posted January 3, 2015 Posted January 3, 2015 :I am 100% sure he is single because he is still on tinder. That's not good reasoning. 1
Author martaldn Posted January 4, 2015 Author Posted January 4, 2015 Just tell him that you like him, if there was more honesty in the world it would be a better, greener planet. He knows I like him. But he also told me he is going to move to Malaysia in few months so he can't offer me a relationship so we agreed with a casual thing. He came up with this exgf thing now so I'm sure telling him again that I like him it would be unnecessary
Author martaldn Posted January 4, 2015 Author Posted January 4, 2015 We normally don't, but they had an agreement from the beginning that this was just going to be casual fun. He didn't offer me to go to his place on the first date. He didn't actually offer it on the second date either. It was at nwe when I was out party and he was going home but I didn't go and this is why we decided to meet up the Saturday night. Then he cancelled me because of his exgf
Author martaldn Posted January 4, 2015 Author Posted January 4, 2015 I agree, just reply "ok." I always use that reply whenever I hear something I don't like. It's perfect bc you're keeping things short and it can be interpreted as "I understand" or "ok, whatever. Bye." Lol then wait and see what his next message is, if he messages.. And based on next message, see if u wanna continue dating him. I think the ex-gf thing is for real though. He's prob just being honest, and also tryna boost his image maybe by making it seem like his ex is still into him..? Idk. Thank u This is what I have done I have replied to his text the day after only with "ok" now it's up to him
Author martaldn Posted January 4, 2015 Author Posted January 4, 2015 You met him on Tinder, what do you expect? It's not as crazy as Grinder, but the technology is the same and the intent is the same. My one and only experience with it left me cold, don't bother and move on. There is a thread here about tinder and lots of people ended up in relationship In my case things are different because we are only planning some fun until he leave this does mean he can cancel me everytime he wants I am moving on already at the end of the day I have seen him only 2 times and as I have said I am also chatting with other people Thank u all for your thoughts
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