SoundofPerseverence Posted January 2, 2015 Posted January 2, 2015 - I'm 25 years old, live in a town of about 110K people (although many of them are older) - my job is male dominated - i have a pretty good social circle and I always try to meet women that way but it just never works out. All the women I meet are all taken or they're not attractive or they're not interested in me It seems like my only option is cold approach but I just don't know what the hell to talk about with a random stranger in a random setting. When I have some kind of a natural conversation starter, I can usually talk to strangers with no problem but what the hell do you say to a random girl at a gym? I just dunno what I'm doing wrong. I find dating to be so damn difficult and I'm not even one of those low confidence guys- I have a lot going for me and I'm pretty happy with myself in most areas
Assada Posted January 2, 2015 Posted January 2, 2015 What do you ask a girl at the gym? - How do you work your glutes- I'd ask that because I seriously dont know how. And also because a lot of chicks are into that area. Also, get to know women for who they are, and leave physical appearance off the menu for a while, you just might meet a quality woman. Just learn to be open, and learn to accept people as they are, leave your judgemental brain at home & it should be easy
d0nnivain Posted January 2, 2015 Posted January 2, 2015 I suggest the following: * professional events, like conferences or continuing education or chamber of commerce, networking type things * MeetUp groups for things that interest you * taking or teaching a class * speed dating * singles groups * telling your family & social circle that you are open to being introduced to new people * volunteering somewhere to do something you are passionate about * OLD * look around at your regular haunts, where you get your morning coffee or have lunch
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