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Dear man, how your mind works and how you fall in love


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I dont understand who is that possible that guys fall in love different way than girls?

 

Its just that, its often like when a girl says to a guy three magical words, a guy can say, ohh sorry, but I am not there yet. So what did you do for the last 5 or 6 months? lol And then my bff says to me that guys really do fall in love different way than women too. So a man can spend years with a girl, who is his gf, not saying ever that he is in love with her? Or have you (as a man) ever lied to your gf that you love her, cause she said it first and you thought it would be nice to say it back? lol

Does it really mean that some girls are marriage material and others arent? How do a woman know if this man is there for her in a long run or he is just with her cause he doesnt want to be alone? Why you guys dont want to commit? lol

 

 

DEAR MAN, HOW YOUR MIND WORKS?

and HOW YOU FALL IN LOVE?

 

 

Guy advice please.

 

 

Thank you, thank you thank you!!!

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Men are simple.

 

But I take it that you went through some stuff OP.

 

How do they fall in love.

Someone that genuinely cares about what they want, cares about what they have to say

Someone willing to learn

and someone nurturing, and willing to give them space

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Yes, many men will date women that they don't see as marriage material. What makes a particular woman marriageable will vary by the guy. Some typical signs that he takes the relationship seriously--

  • He's introduced you to the people who are important in his life (e.g.family)
  • He makes spending time with you a priority
  • He's integrating you into his life
  • He makes concrete long-term plans with you
  • He questions your views on dating and marriage and shares his.
  • He's invested in making the relationship work and progressing things.
  • His actions match his words, and both point to his commitment to the relationship.

Lots of other signs, but these give you a flavor.

 

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