Satu Posted January 3, 2015 Posted January 3, 2015 I'm not a fan of texts. One phone conversation can often tell you more than a couple of dozen texts. 1
Author Heisenberger Posted January 3, 2015 Author Posted January 3, 2015 I'm not a fan of texts. One phone conversation can often tell you more than a couple of dozen texts. Yeah I would prefer it tbh. I know girls don't like pressure. I like to have a small convo and meet up before I start to develop a picture. 1
Author Heisenberger Posted January 5, 2015 Author Posted January 5, 2015 I'm not a fan of texts. One phone conversation can often tell you more than a couple of dozen texts. I took the advice to call her, I didn't ask, I just did it. Hoping it would show confidence without asking first. My call was ignored, for whatever reason. I kind of did this to regs the water, if I got an answer great and if I didn't is leave it upto her to resume contact. How long should I wait before I move on? I'm thinking 3 days. It's Monday now and we were meant to be meeting on Friday. Do you think it's a good time span?
Country_Girl Posted January 5, 2015 Posted January 5, 2015 The date might still be on. I wouldn't worry about her not answering the phone. Sometimes people don't want to commit too much before meeting in person, I know I've had a few failed OLD dates, so now I just prefer to meet and see how we click in person. I'd rather not chat on the phone first, that way we have tons of conversation starters during the date. Maybe send her a text on Thursday to reconfirm Fridays plans? As far as New Years goes, even if she was sitting in, I wouldn't take her lack of response as disinterest. Holidays usually mean something, I had a few guys from OLD ask me out and I declined. Not that I wasn't interested in them, but I didn't want the holiday to attribute some kind of meaning incase it didn't work out. I also don't think she would have given you her # unless she was interested. I don't give my number to guys I'm not interested in. 1
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