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Decided to end a 5 year friendship today because of something Hurtful she said to me

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If two different people are calling you a stalker in two different settings, even jokingly, you might want to take a closer look at your online interactions, smg. Do you have a tendency to intensely focus on a particular woman/women in these settings? People do notice this stuff and become wary.

 

 

The girl who does it playfully is just joking because I'm just pretended to be a stalker. I have not sent her one private message so I don't qualify as a stalker. And she knows that too which is why she is always puts a lol after she says it

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That girl I unfriended on facebook just realized today she was no longer on my friends list. It took her 54 days. Lol

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That girl I unfriended on facebook just realized today she was no longer on my friends list. It took her 54 days. Lol

 

Well blocking her, made a big impact on her life didn't it?

Get over yourself, it was a joke then and the joke is now on you my friend.

Making grand gestures only works if the person actually cares.

54 days before she even realised you were gone... :rolleyes:

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Well blocking her, made a big impact on her life didn't it?

Get over yourself, it was a joke then and the joke is now on you my friend.

Making grand gestures only works if the person actually cares.

54 days before she even realised you were gone... :rolleyes:

 

Well why did she send me a angry text then?

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That girl I unfriended on facebook just realized today she was no longer on my friends list. It took her 54 days. Lol

 

so she sent you an angry text about you deleting her off your facebook?

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so she sent you an angry text about you deleting her off your facebook?

 

Yes if she didn't care she would have never text me asking why

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All this drama when you could of possibly talked it out privately shared your feelings and maybe have gotten the comment removed.

 

Real friends talk things out and overcome things said together.

 

It takes work and communication just like any other form of relationship.

 

Perhaps you didn't want to be this persons friend anymore and you took the first option out, because ending 5 years of friendship over that comment is very drastic and extreme.

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All this drama when you could of possibly talked it out privately shared your feelings and maybe have gotten the comment removed.

 

Real friends talk things out and overcome things said together.

 

It takes work and communication just like any other form of relationship.

 

Perhaps you didn't want to be this persons friend anymore and you took the first option out, because ending 5 years of friendship over that comment is very drastic and extreme.

 

well she called tonight and I told her I thought she was serious and was upset. so we chatted for 30-40 minutes and I added her back. I told her when I didn't see lol I assumed she was serious

 

 

I don't ever want a reputation as a stalker

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