doofus93 Posted January 1, 2015 Posted January 1, 2015 So I was on this 7 day tour and there's this cute girl on the tour.over the tour we've kinda like exchanged glances many times,sometimes the sneaky kind. She is a few years younger than me,like 16-ish. On the second last day i decided to talk to her although I was super shy. I found out her name and it was just a short conversation cause she kept wanting to look for her sister. On the last day I asked if she had Facebook but she said no as she doesn't use it often. We followed on instagram but I know nuts about it. How can I talk to her through instagram? And also I'm not sure if I blew it as our conversation was super awkward,like I was heading too fast but it was the last day of the tour and I probably won't see her again. This is such a bummer,plus I don't know if she's into me or not.. Thanks for taking the time to read this any thoughts will be nice!
Dallers Posted January 1, 2015 Posted January 1, 2015 So I was on this 7 day tour and there's this cute girl on the tour.over the tour we've kinda like exchanged glances many times,sometimes the sneaky kind. She is a few years younger than me,like 16-ish. On the second last day i decided to talk to her although I was super shy. I found out her name and it was just a short conversation cause she kept wanting to look for her sister. On the last day I asked if she had Facebook but she said no as she doesn't use it often. We followed on instagram but I know nuts about it. How can I talk to her through instagram? And also I'm not sure if I blew it as our conversation was super awkward,like I was heading too fast but it was the last day of the tour and I probably won't see her again. This is such a bummer,plus I don't know if she's into me or not.. Thanks for taking the time to read this any thoughts will be nice! Shy guys are just inexperienced men whose brains are flying around at 200% the normal speed. It causes all of the problems you see when trying to approach a girl. Over-thinking, nervousness, awkwardness and it makes her feel terrible. She was looking for her sister as an excuse to get away from you. It really is simple but most men won't listen. What YOU think is right is wrong and even if I told you what was right you would never be able to accept it because it is the opposite of what your inexperienced brain is telling you. You need to go back to basics. Read, research, learn and understand the way women work. You do not stick the turkey in the oven until it is preheated. You can either waste a lot of time trying to approach girls and failing until you do things right. Or get it right first time round. Do your homework. Work on you. Raise confidence by improvement. In any case you just needed to slow down with this girl and go straight for the kill. No thinking, analysing, considering just do it. Because that was your chance and you blew it. Next time be ready to not blow it. By preparing yourself. 1
d0nnivain Posted January 1, 2015 Posted January 1, 2015 Everybody is awkward when they are young. I'm sure you didn't blow it. From her perspective this cool older guy was talking to her. She was probably so enthralled by that fact that she didn't notice anything "bad" you did. Learn some more about Instagram & keep in touch with her until you feel comfortable to ask for a date.
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