spiderowl Posted January 4, 2015 Posted January 4, 2015 Sounds good. Just give her space but reassure her you care and don't want to overwhelm her. She just get the idea then that you are being cautious for her and have listened to what she's said. Good luck!
Author dp22 Posted January 4, 2015 Author Posted January 4, 2015 yeah weve talked a bit now and i have reasured her that i know what i did wrong and she was like im glad you do understand, and apparently her mum said that she knows im a really nice guy i just need to back up
Author dp22 Posted January 4, 2015 Author Posted January 4, 2015 still dont know if shes giving me the chance to stay her boyfriend though :/
Author dp22 Posted January 7, 2015 Author Posted January 7, 2015 ok good news im pretty sure though i havnt asked her directly what we are yet, but anyway taking her to the movies and probably dinner tommoro, and she just got two tickets to this be hind the scenes tv show thing and she invited me
Keke1 Posted January 7, 2015 Posted January 7, 2015 (edited) thanks, yes i know i have smothered her and it is my fault, I did not go to her family me and the granddad were just talking about her present because we were the only two at home, everyone else had gone out, I opened up to him and he seemed to understand the dad came home and the grandad said what we talked about and he agreed. I only talked to the mum after I talked to Elisa because I felt I had to try mend things with her a little or at least let her know I understood what I had done but all I was trying to do was make her birthday special. the times I went to hers unannounced were mainly cause I could tell there was something wrong and she kept saying she was fine, I thought if I could her to come out, put a smile on her face shed open up and tell me whats wrong. I did think about just giving her space but because I didnt know what was wrong I thought that not doing anything or making no effort might feel like i'm abandoning her, and then cause these were special events I thought i had to put in the effort go to the batch make her birthday special, yeah I know I screwed up but this really is the first time ive felt like this about anyone and I really dont know what im doing, I just hope things do work out This is needy behavior man. I'm not sure if you've scared her off or not. You may be in the friend zone man. I see that you guys are going out. Just be cool man. Let everything flow and nothing extra. Just go and have a good time. Don't buy her anything outside of dinner or split it. However you both do. Just do that. Nothing extra. Edited January 7, 2015 by Keke1
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