VedderisBetter Posted January 1, 2015 Posted January 1, 2015 I met a girl online and instead of going to a party for NYE, she agreed to come to my place. We ended up watching part of a movie and ended up doing everything except sex basically. She wanted to grind on me with our bottoms still on so we did. She started saying freaky things like "I love your big #$%$," etc, etc. She told me she's been on three dates in the past 60 days and she's only talking to me and another guy from the sound of it. I asked her after she left if she liked me the most and she said yes. I asked her why and she told me because I seem like a good communicator which is big for her. I asked her where she learned to talk dirty and she said she learned to do it with her ex. Supposedly, she's only went on lunch, dinner, and drinks with the other two. I'm just curious why she chose to come to my place and do more if she didn't with the others. She doesn't seem sleazy. She did mention before she got here how she wants to be kissed on NYE at midnight but she about a half hour before the ball dropped. I asked her about this and figured she didn't think NYE was a big deal and she agreed. The only problem is that she is separated(her husband lives in Kansas City and is seeing other women) and it's going to be approx. 30 days before the courts finalize the divorce. I think it's smart on her part to wait until it's finalized before getting serious. She said she's made up her mind on who she wants to date but doesn't wanna reveal a decision until the divorce is final legally.
Trimmer Posted January 1, 2015 Posted January 1, 2015 She likes you because you've got a huge . . . . amount of skill at communicating. 1
Author VedderisBetter Posted January 1, 2015 Author Posted January 1, 2015 HA It's not even big so not sure why she said this and she saw it too.
SycamoreCircle Posted January 1, 2015 Posted January 1, 2015 And the winner is... Will she announce her decision via Twitter or through Inter-library Loan? She fed you a line. I seriously doubt you'll ever hear from this woman again. She was lonely, it's NYE, you were the one chosen. When she wakes up she'll regret the whole thing. Women who are quick to jump on a man know the necessity of the walk of shame. 3
Trimmer Posted January 1, 2015 Posted January 1, 2015 And the winner is... Will she announce her decision via Twitter or through Inter-library Loan? ...or a half-hour ESPN special called "The Decision." 1
coolheadal Posted January 1, 2015 Posted January 1, 2015 (edited) So you met her online and on the first date she comes to your pad (place where you live). Interesting. So she left Kansas where here husband lives until the divorce is finalized.She seeing other guys who she met online for drinks, dinner and lunch. So she has been very busy. More like fishing in the water and having fun while doing it. Since she been married and this might be the first time away from where she was at. Now here comes you. I impress you do ask a lot of questions which is good. Because this way you'll know what your options are with her. See where your at on her list of men. So it seems she like's it rough and the potty mouth training from current husband. Since she's still married until the Judge said she's not. Anyway you sound keen on her, but I am sure she'll keep on fishing in the water. I doubt she'll setting for one guy again after leaving he marriage and now having fun with her new potty mouth words. Well leave it in her corner if she contacts you again after this fun date she had with you. Might get lucky again with her and then you might not. Just don't know about women like her they don't seem to be stable for one guy to be with. Edited January 1, 2015 by coolheadal 1
Assada Posted January 1, 2015 Posted January 1, 2015 She was lonely and wanted to feel good about herself on NYE. She see's nothing much in you. She fed you some crap about making her mind up. You'll probably only hear from her when she's desperate
Author VedderisBetter Posted January 1, 2015 Author Posted January 1, 2015 I'm actually texting with her and she wants to go out again tonight instead of seeing a movie with her parents. 2
Satu Posted January 1, 2015 Posted January 1, 2015 If you want to spend time with her and you enjoy it do so, but try to avoid having any big expectations. It might become something deeper and it might not. Enjoy the present for what it is.
coolheadal Posted January 1, 2015 Posted January 1, 2015 I'm actually texting with her and she wants to go out again tonight instead of seeing a movie with her parents. Remember don't get your hopes up too much. Until she's free from her husband then you can get your hopes up. But remember she has you + separated husband + all those guys she's dated and still have on the side. Just watch your step and be prepare for what happens next!
acrosstheuniverse Posted January 1, 2015 Posted January 1, 2015 'She wants to wait until the divorce is finalised to reveal who she wants to date' says it all. Sorry kid, she's loving the drama. Note how she isn't waiting for the divorce to sleep with guys, but she's waiting until then to 'reveal' which guy she's gonna go all the way with and 'date'... you couldn't make this stuff up. She loves the attention, that's all. She's probably hurting from her impending divorce and looking for someone to make her feel better. She's looking to see if you and these other guys are pathetic enough to wait around until D-Day desperately hoping she 'picks you' like some lame ass reality tv show. I would toss this one back. She doesn't seem like a very good bet for a partner. 2
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