Maleficent Posted January 1, 2015 Posted January 1, 2015 I was hanging out with this guy once and we were basically surfing Youtube showing each other what we liked. I put this video from a local band (which was a band I played with at the time) and he said 'Look no offence, you're cute and all but your tastes in music sucks!' But later on he ended up saying about another band's guitarist 'He's a f*cking n*gger, but he's good so I guess it's ok' I was gone from there 5 minutes later lol 4
bubbaganoosh Posted January 1, 2015 Posted January 1, 2015 When i was a teenager, I met this girl the local spot where everyone hung out and talked to her. Saw a couple more times and we hung out when either I or her would be there and one night I asked her if she wanted to go out and I got this line about her living in a high end area of the city where I come from and I lived in the middle class area and she only dates guys from her status. Well I don't really like having someone telling me that just because they live in a well to do neighborhood that their $h!t doesn't stink and I told her to kiss my middle class ass and walked away. 11 years later, I was running my own business, had a nice home sitting on 5 acres of wooded property, new car, and doing really good for myself one day I pulled into a little greasy spoon burger joint to get a cup of coffee to go and almost fell over when the waitress took my order and it was none other than "Miss My $h!t Doesn't Stink" from my days hanging out at the local teen hangout. The girl looked like a she was beat with a ugly stick and from what I found out was she married a high end guy and he dumped her after five years of marriage and she hit the skids. She knew who I was and I knew who she was and she asked how I was doing and I said great. I thanked her for the coffee and left her a dollar tip. Pay back is a bitch. 6
TabbyHearts Posted January 1, 2015 Posted January 1, 2015 Fear not, it's my (middle) name too . mine too! 1
Country_Girl Posted January 1, 2015 Posted January 1, 2015 I went on this double date with my friend, her husband, and her husband's friend. I had met him a couple times before, so I assumed things would go well, he seemed genuinely nice the times we talked before. We all went to a concert together, he got drunk and even fell when we left the venue. I had prior arrangements to stay at my friend's place since she lives an hour away and we knew we wouldn't get back till late at night. Since he was drunk my friend's husband told him he needed to crash on the other couch, he could not drive home like that. My friend's went to bed and we started watching tv. Things were good, we started kissing and making out (just kissing). He tried taking it farther, I said no I don't really know you. He tried guilting me saying "well obviously you don't find me attractive". Berated me for what felt like 2 hours, called me "prude". Even said "he could just make me if he wanted" (ummm, hello, as in rape? Wtf?). He said "I was lucky he even cuddled with me, because he doesn't cuddle with women he hasn't ****ed first". Goodness, I could not believe the words out of his mouth. I actually ran into him a year later at my friends BBQ. Super awkward, on his part, he completely avoided me. I walked up to him and offered him a cupcake, just to show him I wasn't afraid of his sorry ass. 6 months later at my friends Super Bowl party he was acting all interested, asking about my job and stuff- I totally blew him off and talked to other dudes. It was great. 5
acrosstheuniverse Posted January 1, 2015 Posted January 1, 2015 "You're skinnier than you are in your pics" I'm 5'10" 176 pounds and its muscle, but I wore an over sized shirt to see how shallow she was. I found out. Are you sure that was meant to be an insult? Sounds like the sort of thing I might have said to somebody just as a passing comment when you first meet an online date in person. Just to break the ice 'oh, you look taller than I thought you'd be!' 'oh, I didn't realise how much your hair had grown since the photos!' blah blah. 2
LexiB Posted January 1, 2015 Posted January 1, 2015 Are you sure that was meant to be an insult? Sounds like the sort of thing I might have said to somebody just as a passing comment when you first meet an online date in person. Just to break the ice 'oh, you look taller than I thought you'd be!' 'oh, I didn't realise how much your hair had grown since the photos!' blah blah. Yeahhhhh, but weight is usually not a good topic to comment on like that. Even if you mean it as a compliment. Just...don't. 2
acrosstheuniverse Posted January 2, 2015 Posted January 2, 2015 Yeahhhhh, but weight is usually not a good topic to comment on like that. Even if you mean it as a compliment. Just...don't. Well, I wouldn't exactly say to someone 'that's crazy, I can't believe how much fatter you are than in your pics!' but I would equally be a bit turned off by someone who got butthurt that I mentioned they'd lost weight. Especially how in our society, losing weight is 80% of the time seen as a good thing, or at least a neutral thing (I have become aware that some men who are into fitness like to maintain a higher weight if it's pure muscle but I've rarely spent any time with or met guys like that so the 'ooh you look slimmer than your pics' could easily slip out and be intended as a compliment from me! If it turned out they were testing me, then I would be pleased I wasn't going to be seeing them again. I wouldn't show up on a first date without showering, wearing baggy or WAY TOO TIGHT clothes, not bothering with makeup or washing my hair, and then complain if a guy didn't wanna see me again that he was shallow lol.
DivorcedDad123 Posted January 2, 2015 Posted January 2, 2015 Oh I'm not butthurt over it. I could care less. Thats just the only mean thing I've ever had said and it wasnt really that mean. She's still looking for someone to date and that was almost two years ago. She's not a bad person and she still contacts me from time to time just to talkabout how hard it is in the dating world. 1
missliss908 Posted January 2, 2015 Posted January 2, 2015 One guy insulted me for being a teacher. He said "That's ALL you do?" when I told him my job. Yeah buddy, come to my classroom right after lunch and see if you can handle 26 hyper first graders. Not really an insult, but another guy was apparently disgusted by all foods (seriously, it took us 20 minutes to pick a restaurant because he didn't like X or Y) and kept making "disgusted" comments about what I was eating when we finally did settle on a place. I'm not sure if that was his attempt at flirting but it really turned me off He also said that he hated bread, cheese and sauce but ordered a pizza...?
thecrucible Posted January 2, 2015 Posted January 2, 2015 I went on a date with this plastic surgeon who was telling me about how I can improve my face (he wasn't exactly an Adonis himself anyway). Most other dates have been forgettable as I've enjoyed them but they never went anywhere. With this one guy on out tenth date or something (we'd already had sex by this point), I asked him 'What's your favourite thing about me?'. I thought he'd say something about my personality but no, he said "Your vagina". Gee thanks dude...then he said "If loads of women's breasts were laid out on a shelf, I would not pick your breasts'... I cried :/ 1
FitChick Posted January 2, 2015 Posted January 2, 2015 (edited) i think on a second (and final date), it was something along the lines of "you're really pretty, but there are other girls much better looking." You should have replied, "True, but they'd never date you." I had no idea there were so many plastic surgeons trying to drum up business. Playing on your insecurities. You should have said, "I'd need to see your Before and Afters first. I wouldn't let just anyone touch my face or body. How much of a discount would you give me?" Put them on the defensive! Edited January 2, 2015 by FitChick 1
dreamingoftigers Posted January 2, 2015 Posted January 2, 2015 I went on a date with this plastic surgeon who was telling me about how I can improve my face (he wasn't exactly an Adonis himself anyway). Most other dates have been forgettable as I've enjoyed them but they never went anywhere. With this one guy on out tenth date or something (we'd already had sex by this point), I asked him 'What's your favourite thing about me?'. I thought he'd say something about my personality but no, he said "Your vagina". Gee thanks dude...then he said "If loads of women's breasts were laid out on a shelf, I would not pick your breasts'... I cried :/ Awww:( I would have actually liked the vagina comment. LoL, seriously. When my husband and I were first engaged he laughed about what he should tell his friends as to why. I told him, "just tell them it's because I am really tight." He laughed really hard about that and said if he told them the truth about me that he could see some of them coming up saying, "hey buddy, you remember that time I was kinda broke and still split and six pack with you, right?" Yeah, so classy. But it does remind me of how with my first .bf, he was having trouble finishing one time when we were together and he said, "I think I kind of came already or you just aren't as tight as you used to be." I cried too.
mortensorchid Posted January 3, 2015 Posted January 3, 2015 Without looking at all the banter that has unfolded, to answer your question as to what is/was the rudest thing anyone ever said to you on a date? I have two stories. One said to me "My problem isn't that you have faults, but you're not comfortable talking about them with me. What happens when life throws a monkey wrench in the works then?" I was blown away that someone would be looking for the negative things about me, so then I said to him "I really don't think that's relevant." He said "You're too sensitive." I said I didn't think it was such a good idea that he and I would continue this any further. He stalked me for a long time after that - I changed my phone numbers, screen names, blocked him on social networking sites, etc. Another I could tell during the meal itself that he was arrogant by his comments and things. I also knew he and I would not be seeing each other again after this painful night was over with, but we left the restaurant and he asked where I was parked. I pointed over to the parking garage, he literally walked away from me and said "Thanks for the stories." I was bowled over, not even a handshake! But hey, it takes all kinds doesn't it?
Rydo Posted January 3, 2015 Posted January 3, 2015 Never really had anyone be rude to me on a date or even on a night out tbh. One girl that I met via tinder said she wasn't sure about coming out as she thougt I came across as a prat via txt sometimes(I do this often and intentionally) but this was after she had already made it very obvious she was interested when we walked between bars. I ended up seeing her quite a lot for a few weeks and she really wanted a relationship but I didn't at that point regardless of how hot she was.
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