spanishchick00 Posted December 31, 2014 Posted December 31, 2014 A few years ago, I remember going on a movie date with this guy that I had a crush on. During the movie we chatted for a bit, asked the usual questions. Then after he said, "If I didn't have this going on tonight, I would have just stayed home." Thought that was rude. Just curious if anyone's first dates were similar.
JuneJulySeptember Posted December 31, 2014 Posted December 31, 2014 A few years ago, I remember going on a movie date with this guy that I had a crush on. During the movie we chatted for a bit, asked the usual questions. Then after he said, "If I didn't have this going on tonight, I would have just stayed home." Thought that was rude. Just curious if anyone's first dates were similar. I don't understand how that is rude at all. You name it. Women have said all kinds of things to me including implying that they could not see me dating certain types of women (races and ethnicities), saying that I looked like movie actors who were like comic relief character actors, and that I look like a nerdy occupation like an engineer (even though I was fashionably dressed). There's tons more. It's probably questionable how many of those were actually dates but they were one on one. I take notes on what offends me so I remember to never say that to another person, whether date, friend, acquaintance, mailman, etc. 6
Lernaean_Hydra Posted December 31, 2014 Posted December 31, 2014 A few years ago, I remember going on a movie date with this guy that I had a crush on. During the movie we chatted for a bit, asked the usual questions. Then after he said, "If I didn't have this going on tonight, I would have just stayed home." Thought that was rude. Just curious if anyone's first dates were similar. I don't see how you thought that was rude. It's a lot better than saying he would've been out with some other girl instead. . . Anyway, I haven't had many rude things said to me but I've had a few done to me on a date. I actually have a thread on that somewhere around here. Anyway, when I was about 22 I had a guy invite me out to some bar. We were talking and I wasn't drunk but the more he spoke the more I realzied something was off about what he was saying. Half of it was cryptic and/or didn't make sense and the other half was just...weird or really invasive. He as very interested in my financial affairs and wanted to know if I had any large or elaborate tattoos or birthmarks. Which was quite odd. Annnnnywho, long story short he was a wannabe pimp trying to "recruit" me if not for street work then amateur porn . 7
todreaminblue Posted December 31, 2014 Posted December 31, 2014 I really can't remember anything bad a guy has said on a first date....maybe more actions such as groping or kissing with their tongue playing hockey with my epiglottis.....i felt quite disrespected on a few first dates and that to me was ...yep bad first dates...not enjoyable..deb
somedude81 Posted December 31, 2014 Posted December 31, 2014 I don't see how you thought that was rude. It's a lot better than saying he would've been out with some other girl instead. . . Anyway, I haven't had many rude things said to me but I've had a few done to me on a date. I actually have a thread on that somewhere around here. Anyway, when I was about 22 I had a guy invite me out to some bar. We were talking and I wasn't drunk but the more he spoke the more I realzied something was off about what he was saying. Half of it was cryptic and/or didn't make sense and the other half was just...weird or really invasive. He as very interested in my financial affairs and wanted to know if I had any large or elaborate tattoos or birthmarks. Which was quite odd. Annnnnywho, long story short he was a wannabe pimp trying to "recruit" me if not for street work then amateur porn . Ha Ha! Some date that turned out to be. For me I once took a girl out to the beach and we walked pretty far down the jetty. As we were sitting looking at the waves I said something like, "Nicole, I would really like to get to know you better." She turned to me and said, "Well I don't want to get to know you better. "Needless to say the drive back to her place to drop her off was very awkward. A year or so later she tried to add me on LinkedIn of all things. 6
evanescentworld Posted December 31, 2014 Posted December 31, 2014 "Wow, I love that dress...! It looks a lot better from behind, though...." .....Whut dafuq....?? 2
Lernaean_Hydra Posted January 1, 2015 Posted January 1, 2015 Ha Ha! Some date that turned out to be. For me I once took a girl out to the beach and we walked pretty far down the jetty. As we were sitting looking at the waves I said something like, "Nicole, I would really like to get to know you better." She turned to me and said, "Well I don't want to get to know you better. "Needless to say the drive back to her place to drop her off was very awkward. A year or so later she tried to add me on LinkedIn of all things. That was mean but really flipping funny. And oh of course her name is Nicole. In my experience, girls with Nicole as any of their names are usually...well, bitches. 1
USMCHokie Posted January 1, 2015 Posted January 1, 2015 A few years ago, I remember going on a movie date with this guy that I had a crush on. During the movie we chatted for a bit, asked the usual questions. Then after he said, "If I didn't have this going on tonight, I would have just stayed home." Thought that was rude. Just curious if anyone's first dates were similar. Uh...how is this rude...? Anyway, I've never had a bad date...I always had fun and they always seemed like they had fun...it was always a matter of getting to the first date... 1
evanescentworld Posted January 1, 2015 Posted January 1, 2015 That was mean but really flipping funny. And oh of course her name is Nicole. In my experience, girls with Nicole as any of their names are usually...well, bitches. Thanks for that........ 1
Lernaean_Hydra Posted January 1, 2015 Posted January 1, 2015 Thanks for that........ Fear not, it's my (middle) name too .
somedude81 Posted January 1, 2015 Posted January 1, 2015 Thanks for that........ Ha ha! I bet her name is Nicole too Edit: Yup, I was right.
evanescentworld Posted January 1, 2015 Posted January 1, 2015 Actually, Nicole isn't my name at all*, but I figured you just made enemies of all the Nicoles on the board.... (*Which makes me NOT a bitch - !! )
d0nnivain Posted January 1, 2015 Posted January 1, 2015 I went to a party with a plastic surgeon who spent most of the evening telling what body parts of mine he's operate on to make me perfect. 7
Jules Dash Posted January 1, 2015 Posted January 1, 2015 I went to a party with a plastic surgeon who spent most of the evening telling what body parts of mine he's operate on to make me perfect. Did you tell him that you have yet to see plastic surgery improve anyone? 1
AVarma Posted January 1, 2015 Posted January 1, 2015 Ha Ha! Some date that turned out to be. For me I once took a girl out to the beach and we walked pretty far down the jetty. As we were sitting looking at the waves I said something like, "Nicole, I would really like to get to know you better." She turned to me and said, "Well I don't want to get to know you better. "Needless to say the drive back to her place to drop her off was very awkward. A year or so later she tried to add me on LinkedIn of all things. I swear the nerve of some people. I've actually had girls who bullied me in school try to add me on facebook. If I could reach through the screen and slap them I would. I went to a party with a plastic surgeon who spent most of the evening telling what body parts of mine he's operate on to make me perfect. And I thought I was bad with women. Some people's arrogance never fails to surprise me. 2
Eddy Street Posted January 1, 2015 Posted January 1, 2015 (edited) She literally asked me if I could do her a favor and be her "proctor" and admitted that was the reason she agreed to go on the date with me. I felt pretty stupid. Edited January 1, 2015 by Eddy Street
Eddy Street Posted January 1, 2015 Posted January 1, 2015 A few years ago, I remember going on a movie date with this guy that I had a crush on. During the movie we chatted for a bit, asked the usual questions. Then after he said, "If I didn't have this going on tonight, I would have just stayed home." Thought that was rude. Just curious if anyone's first dates were similar. What's wrong with that? For some people staying home is big. 2
newmoon Posted January 1, 2015 Posted January 1, 2015 i think on a second (and final date), it was something along the lines of "you're really pretty, but there are other girls much better looking." gee, thanks. 1
Lernaean_Hydra Posted January 1, 2015 Posted January 1, 2015 I went to a party with a plastic surgeon who spent most of the evening telling what body parts of mine he's operate on to make me perfect. Holy Toledo! That happened to me once. We weren't on a date but a friend of mine had a little get together in the hills and I met this plastics guy there. We were just chatting about the industry in general until he went all Christian "tell me what you don't like about yourself" Troy and talked about what wonders he could do for my nose and flanks......... Ah, bless. 2
MissBee Posted January 1, 2015 Posted January 1, 2015 Ha Ha! Some date that turned out to be. For me I once took a girl out to the beach and we walked pretty far down the jetty. As we were sitting looking at the waves I said something like, "Nicole, I would really like to get to know you better." She turned to me and said, "Well I don't want to get to know you better. "Needless to say the drive back to her place to drop her off was very awkward. A year or so later she tried to add me on LinkedIn of all things. This reminds me of a movie. I don't mean to laugh, I'm sure it felt awkward but just reading it sounds hilarious. 1
preraph Posted January 1, 2015 Posted January 1, 2015 I went to a party with a plastic surgeon who spent most of the evening telling what body parts of mine he's operate on to make me perfect. Bad enough. Even worse, a NON-plastic surgeon telling me what body part changes I needed to look like a model. And that was a guy who I found out too late was stalking me and then basically date raped me, but instead of getting into a fight, I acquiesced (didn't even have a phone at the time and he wouldn't leave and blocked the door.) And when he said that it was the next time I accidentally ran into him out somewhere. And I can't be sure, but I think he may be who doped my drink two months later, but he was definitely present at that hangout trying to talk to me when I suddenly became overcome. Fortunately, I let someone else drive me home puking who stayed with me. And now that I think about it, someone did come knocking that night, but we didn't answer the door. He had the nerve to come into my record store, and I confided to a male friend/coworker the abbreviated version, and he "had a talk" with him outside :) Never saw him again!
nadine5 Posted January 1, 2015 Posted January 1, 2015 "It's strange that you would wear such big earrings; since your ears are big enough, it just accentuates them." 6
fred123 Posted January 1, 2015 Posted January 1, 2015 iv had the girl tell me "remember one thing for the future, you are not that good looking" and so unfortunately iv taken that to heart and now remind myself every day I'm not good looking and not to approach women out of my league which i obviously know are better than me i don't think iv had anything bad said to me apart from that. iv been ignored and spent the whole night listening to another language which i thought was rude and ignorant. most of my dates the girls have been polite:) 1
DivorcedDad123 Posted January 1, 2015 Posted January 1, 2015 "You're skinnier than you are in your pics" I'm 5'10" 176 pounds and its muscle, but I wore an over sized shirt to see how shallow she was. I found out.
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