annaballerina Posted December 31, 2014 Posted December 31, 2014 my break up was not your typical so i really had no closure it was abrupt and that was it. i decided to do a closure box where i wrote all the things id miss about them,memories,pics and spoke a few words about them all positive. wished them luck in their future and put their pics and things theyd sent me in it and took it to a dumpster not out of disrespect but as final closure on the relationship. its the death and loss of someone in my life. ill miss them but ill never forget the good times we shared whether they were sincere or not they were my memories and i.choosr to end it with the good and not the bad. rip and onto healing and moving forward... 1
Satu Posted December 31, 2014 Posted December 31, 2014 Our subconscious mind is completely non-verbal, and communicates with the conscious mind via symbols, dreams, and gut feelings. By doing what you did, you sent a clear message to your deep self, and your psyche will integrate it into your consciousness and thinking in order to create a state of harmony inside you. What you did was an act of intuitive genius. 1
welshbambi Posted January 1, 2015 Posted January 1, 2015 Agree with Satu, what a beautiful way to give yourself closure and a marker in the sand to move forward. 1
Trimmer Posted January 1, 2015 Posted January 1, 2015 Ah, what a beautiful and peaceful transition you created! It makes me feel calm and at peace myself, just reading your description of it. 1
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