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Guys/Gals- Do you have more than one "look" you are attracted to?


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This is true for me.

 

But then that person can become my physical "type" based on association. That's why I have the type I do--because I associate it with the person who arouses me most. It wasn't my type before I met him.

 

Well, yea.

 

There's two types of people. People who only date people they find physically attractive and everybody else is done for. Then, there are people who will give a chance to those people they don't find attractive.

 

But there are actually lots of people who nobody finds attractive off the bat.

 

So, obviously if you are nobody's type then, you're not going to be too thrilled about playing the game of picking types/looks because it feels a little pointless and hypocritical.

 

So, why am I in this thread, you ask? I don't know. :lmao:

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I'm attracted to a vibe a guy gives off more than a 'look.'

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I think I may have a type more so in terms of personality than I do looks except that all the men I've been with tend to be tall, leaner, and have nice teeth (good teeth and nice smiles are definitely a thing for me), they're conventionally attractive and dress well. Tall, Dark and Handsome tends to be my thing. But I've also been attracted to other looks.

 

I think my type tends to be most consistent in terms of how a man presents himself and I find I am most often attracted to and have been with more stoic, reserved, pensive kind of men with quick wits who open up when you get to know them.

 

I do love some Idris Elba in terms of his energy and presentation. :love:

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