teamjordan12 Posted December 31, 2014 Posted December 31, 2014 Ok so I've been in NC for about 2 days now but today me and my ex girlfriend had to take our 2 year old daughter to the doctor( our daughter lives with her.) So I couldn't really be NC while she was in the car with me but anyways everything went fine and she was telling me how maybe in Feb. "if things work out" she wanted me to go with her to see her brother in florida with her family. I simply said yeah that would be great and just kept the convo. going When I was dropping them off we ended up kissing just a peck nothing serious before she left. She told me to have a good day and I said the same and left. Since then I have not texted her or called and she hasn't either so what do I do from here? Do I continue to stay in NC? (Our previous relationship lasted about 3 years and I'm still in love with her)
preraph Posted January 6, 2015 Posted January 6, 2015 Sounds like she doesn't know what she wants. Since you've got a daughter, I'd suggest she get it figured out and quit dangling you. Don't agree to dangle for more than a short amount of time. Keep your own needs in mind and your daughter's needs in mind and don't just wait for her to decide what she wants. Be clear about what you need and have some boundaries so you'll know what to do when the verdict comes down.
barky2 Posted January 6, 2015 Posted January 6, 2015 Keep it about your child, and only about your child. If you're invited....great! If not, oh well. Let her set the pace and you follow. Give space, but be there for your child. Keep a low profile man, if you're asked to go do something with them, go and have a good time...but don't be needy asking relationship questions, just ask how your child is doing and be happy go lucky. Barky
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