welshbambi Posted December 31, 2014 Posted December 31, 2014 I am making a 2 hour trip to spend it with my sister. We are going to the beach and am going to do some rituals to let go of negativity from 2015 and embrace positivity, live and peace for 2015. If I am brutally honest it would make my dreams come true if "he" magically came back like something out of The Notebook. But as "he" never really existed, I'll just have to make do with witchcraft. 6
Ieris Posted December 31, 2014 Posted December 31, 2014 That sounds great, have a wonderful time with your sister! I am spending it with my cousin who has been very supportive when I was down, we're having a girlie night out. Starting 2015 with a clean slate and getting rid of all the toxic people/things in my life x 3
ThreeYearsDumb Posted December 31, 2014 Posted December 31, 2014 I can't think of a better night to perform some cleansing rituals. Be sure to perform a couple for all of us on Loveshack! I'm spending it with my daughter. We are both under the weather so we borrowed and old VCR and will watch Disney movies all night. Of course my date has an 8:30 bedtime so I'll be by myself at midnight. If I'm being brutally honest it would also make my dreams come true if "she" called and said I want to spend it with the both of you. But since she will be with her new boyfriend, I won't hold my breath. 3
Anela Posted December 31, 2014 Posted December 31, 2014 I'll be with my parents, and we'll be on skype at 7pm Eastern time, with my aunt, watching it turn midnight in London. we'll probably watch a movie, although I wish we could be at a beach. I wouldn't mind doing some sort of ritual - the second half of this year was much better than the past three years, so I'm hoping for that to continue in 2015. 1
JDPT Posted December 31, 2014 Posted December 31, 2014 I think I'm going tip handle it like any other day. 2
NopeNah Posted December 31, 2014 Posted December 31, 2014 I never really celebrate new years. I'll be staying in,probably rearrange my house. Maybe cook up something? Not sure.
The Poster Posted December 31, 2014 Posted December 31, 2014 New Years Eve has never been a big deal to me. I've never been into the whole "go to a crowded, noisy place full of drunk obnoxious people" thing. The only New Years Eves I can remember fondly are ones I spent with a few friends/SO just relaxing and sharing laughs. Other than that, I like my peace and quiet. I will be reading my self-improvement book, doing the exercises and continuing my piano lessons when the clock strikes midnight. Just how I want it to be. Working on myself and chasing my goals. 3
kenmore Posted December 31, 2014 Posted December 31, 2014 Cool thread! I ALWAYS stayed up to open a bottle of champagne at 12! Every year! Even after my first wife passed, it was a tradition and I had a teenage daughter so we stayed up. This year my sister asked me to come by for new years...my sister. Let me tell you something about my sister. A Born again Christian who would do anything for anybody. Lives alone, selfless and always wanting to help. A great person, right? WRONG! She's a part of my marriage breakup, possibly a large part! Still not sure how much. It all started with my SIL giving my new wife a warning...that didn't help either. Anyway, my sister called my new wife only months after we met as we were leaving on a vacation to inform her how s**tty of a person she was for taking me away from my teenage daughter for a weekend! Mind you, my teenage daughter rarely spent an evening home anymore. She was always at a "girlfriend's house" (yeah right), and was 18. Well, that went over big and we both told her to mind her damned business! As time went by, somehow things got worse. Emails exploded and it ended up with neither of us talking to each other. I HATED my sister for how she acted and told her so. We didn't speak for years. Over time, we started speaking again, and soon after she started acting like nothing had happened, but I have been cold since. Now I live with my parents until my tenant's lease expires next year, and she's my new best friend in her mind. In her mind, the "bitch" is gone and we can all be happy. In my mind, the "bitch" is the one I have to put up with! So, guess who I'm NOT spending new year's eve with? Yep, neither one. I'll spend it with a f**cking bottle of JD and the Scorpions. Now that's living! Welcome 2015!!! 1
kenmore Posted December 31, 2014 Posted December 31, 2014 Oh yes, and I'm going to embrace letting go of negativity...for most people LOL 1
WonderKid Posted December 31, 2014 Posted December 31, 2014 People so worried on what to do on NYs. If you don't have a BF/GF then spend it with family. If that's not possible then go to a bar. Anything's better than sitting in the house looking at four walls and a screen.
ralfgarnett Posted December 31, 2014 Posted December 31, 2014 I am making a 2 hour trip to spend it with my sister. We are going to the beach and am going to do some rituals to let go of negativity from 2015 and embrace positivity, live and peace for 2015. If I am brutally honest it would make my dreams come true if "he" magically came back like something out of The Notebook. But as "he" never really existed, I'll just have to make do with witchcraft. Hi WB please will you cast a spell for me too, I also have had romantic notions of her coming back but I doubt it will happen but I would appreciate you throwing me out a cosmic order or spell or whathever the coirrect wicken terminology is, I am quite interested in white wickery I have 2 friends that dabble and they are very intresting, on a personal I was staying in but have been persuaded to go out to a local pub so lets see what the brings, good luck to you WB I feel your pain and want you to know that my thoughts are with you and all the rest of us that have been hurt so badly by those we loved so very much. 2
Heartbroken Eagle Posted December 31, 2014 Posted December 31, 2014 I am making a 2 hour trip to spend it with my sister. We are going to the beach and am going to do some rituals to let go of negativity from 2015 and embrace positivity, live and peace for 2015. If I am brutally honest it would make my dreams come true if "he" magically came back like something out of The Notebook. But as "he" never really existed, I'll just have to make do with witchcraft. Hi WB, can I also request that you cast a spell for me too!!! I'm having a quiet one tonight, opening a bottle of bubbly at midnight. I have my son with me and we have an early start in the morning hence need to be 'Compos Mentos'. Need to start loving myself again in 2015, get my confidence back and move on from my cruel ex. I know I have a big, kind heart, would love to share it with someone special again, alongside my son of course!!! Just the damage my ex caused it has taken longer to heal than anticipated, which is frustrating to say the least.... Happy New Year everyone, may we all find the happiness we all deserve xxx
unforgotten Posted December 31, 2014 Posted December 31, 2014 Oh man I have some good memories on a NYE with my ex. I think the first year we were together we spent outside in an unknown basement hugging, cuddling and kissing. It was cold but love was warming us. One time we went hiking in the hills. It was snowy and exhausting but man we had fun. Well this year she's spending it with her new bf kissing him at midnight. How cool is that? I wonder if I'll ever cross her mind. I'm going out of town so I won't bump into her or them two and I'm going with my buddy to the club. We'll try to make the best of it and meet new people. I'm glad I've met some new friends who have problems of their own so I can see I'm not alone in this. It's kind of a relief. This friend of mine was living together with her gf for 4 years and then she cheated on him. Two months later she was married to that guy. How sick is that?
ralfgarnett Posted December 31, 2014 Posted December 31, 2014 Well I was planning on staying in tonight just me 2 kittys and my drinks cabinet, but a mate of mine rang to say he has tickets for a local pub and I am going too even if I dint want to so I have brushed off my best suit and ironed a shirt, looks like I am going ou maybe just maybe wwe might meet a couple of equally lobely desperate chicks but oi doubt it although I do puckler up well at midnight
lauren13 Posted December 31, 2014 Posted December 31, 2014 Home alone and giving no fuucks. Same here lol 1
FancyFace Posted December 31, 2014 Posted December 31, 2014 Today is such a painful day for me. This time last year we spent the evening with each other just talking about life in general, our life and where we were going as a couple, a unit. Popping champagne and having so much fun. I felt like it was bliss, paradise, heaven on earth. Now I find myself sitting behind the bar that my cousin works at, with my ipod on full blast, watching happy people walk about without a care in the world and all i just want to do is crawl inside of myself and never come out. Not to mention that when he was breaking up with me I begged that we just take a break and meet again on this day to see whether we can salvage the relationship. Pathetic I know. I am in such quiet desperation and pain right now that my breathing pattern has changed. It's laboured and slow. I know today is just another day but it's another day that shows he never loved me and that he really isn't coming back. Hurts man. Really hurts. Happy New Year all. Sending you as much light and love as I can muster.
NopeNah Posted December 31, 2014 Posted December 31, 2014 Woke up today with thoughts of 'what she will be doing tonight with whoever her new guy is(glad I don't know). Was going to stay home...Not now! I deserve to go out and enjoy whatever the night brings! I refuse to be the guy throwing a pity party of one.
sober and dry Posted December 31, 2014 Posted December 31, 2014 Today I marked it as "the last day of this painful chapter". Tomorrow I will start a new one, hopefully without the painful stuff of this year. I will take this date, that never told me much besides being a good excuse to get drunk, and make it a milestone. I will spend it with my family at home and drink all the champagne they left Maybe even go to a bar alone just to get a little more drunk! Happy new year and great new starts to all! 2
JFReyes Posted December 31, 2014 Posted December 31, 2014 (edited) For the first time in my 54 years I'll spend NYE outside my home. Before tonight it was either with company (parents/wife/kids/girlfriends/fiancee) or by my lonesome self but still always at my home. To end 2014 I'm going to spend the evening at my new girlfriend's home. I'm hopeful that this is the first of many good changes that will happen in 2015, and I wish you all the same. Edited December 31, 2014 by JFReyes 1
RedButton Posted December 31, 2014 Posted December 31, 2014 Ehh, honestly I don't make a bid deal out of NYE, probably because I'm not much into drinking and partying. I could have gone to a party full of strangers but then got an offer to a friend's smaller get together, so I'll go to that with a bottle of wine. Even so, I just came off the flu and I'm so tired, I feel like I would enjoy nothing more than a night at home and catching up on sleep. Seriously, I'm so freakin' exhausted and just want to chill. Will make an appearance anyway out of courtesy I guess
ballycastle Posted December 31, 2014 Posted December 31, 2014 I am spending it alone, with cider and tv. A time of reflection and tears. Like many others the year before was different full of promise of a future. Full of mixture of regret and hope, but one thing I have promised to myself, is that I need to look out for myself only. I am going back to therapy and hope that will fix me. But a year on, I am still broken. Sad, 1
Gloria25 Posted January 1, 2015 Posted January 1, 2015 I really don't do anything for it. I'm just having drinks and listening to some music...probably stay up and watch some movies later. I am gonna drink it up and party... cuz on Monday it's back to barely any sleep and working my butt off... I'm just glad the holidays are over...this woman's on a mission and got stuff to do!!! I already busted my butt the past couple of days working on some stuff...so, now I get to partay!!!
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