Million.to.1 Posted January 1, 2015 Posted January 1, 2015 Has anyone considered that he just used a condom for a wank to avoid clean-up? Although it's not a common thing to do, I have known a couple of partners that did this on occasion. Better eliminate that before jumping to conclusions that he is lying. 1
xXMarlboro_ManXx Posted January 1, 2015 Posted January 1, 2015 Maybe he emptied his garbage can and it was just stuck to the bottom from months ago, OP you should poke at it and see if it is stuck
salparadise Posted January 1, 2015 Posted January 1, 2015 I wonder if the OP feels like she could have options, too, the way she suspects her sort-of-not-really-boyfriend does. I think sometimes people with unwarranted low self-esteem put up with all sorts of ridiculous **** because they feel like they have to or else they get nothing. Perhaps, but I think OP knows she could get sex anytime, anywhere... and probably a decent, steady boyfriend almost as easily. She'd rather accept dregs from a guy with options... the same thing that makes him so confident that he can get laid wherever he goes is what keeps OP hanging on for little bit of nothing. The guy has panache' and looks good. He knows how to mak'em wet.
TigerLilly78 Posted January 2, 2015 Posted January 2, 2015 I wonder if its possible some one else used his bed while he was out or away and didn't fully clean up after themselves? dose he live with roommates? I know its far fetched but just something I thought about while rereading this thread..
EgoJoe Posted January 2, 2015 Posted January 2, 2015 (edited) If I'm into a girl there doesn't even need to be an exclusivity talk. Dumping him would be a wise course of action if you would prefer a monogamous relationship. It sounds like you were a long term conquest for him. In the future before you "seal the deal" say something early early on like I don't want to have sex with someone who is not committed to being exclusive. Stay away from only, always and never statements. Just state your current desire and if they do not agree with it or are pretending. Exercise a boundary and walk away. It's powerful just try it. Edited January 2, 2015 by EgoJoe
Author vivi_angel89 Posted January 2, 2015 Author Posted January 2, 2015 I wonder if its possible some one else used his bed while he was out or away and didn't fully clean up after themselves? dose he live with roommates? I know its far fetched but just something I thought about while rereading this thread.. He does have a roommate however he went on vacations for 2 weeks. It could be one million reasons... I would have asked him about the condom but most of the people advised me not to do so because we aren't exclusive yet.
guest569 Posted January 2, 2015 Posted January 2, 2015 I dont think it matters that you're not exclusive.. You can still ask..
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