White guys / Asian women

January 8, 2015

Sigh.

So much BS in this thread.

I'm a white guy. I live in Japan. I've been here for 10 years.

Japanese women DO NOT worship white men. Not here. Maybe in someplace like Cambodia, but here it's actually considered a step down the social ladder t date a non-Japanese.

Asian women aren't more "subservient" or any of that nonsense.

White guys like Asian women for ONE reason: they're HOT. They're slim, they take care of themselves, they dress well, they do their hair and make-up, they don't leave the house in sandals and sweatpants. They are feminine and gorgeous and act like women. White men that grew up in places like America, Australia and England where the women can pretty much pass for guys these days with the way they curse, drink, yell, etc. are astounded when they see the difference in Asian females.

So there you have it.

Go on...flame me. Call me a misongynist pig, insult me, whatever. I don't care. Being with a Japanese woman is like seeing a movie in full color HD for the first time....no way in hell I'm ever going back to a crappy old black and white tv.

It amazing that a lot of guys still hold on to view that Asian women are more feminine by the way they act and look? Sorry man, it looks like you been abused and dumped by a lot of white women back home that why you prefer to live in Asia! I know this because I have friends who are just like this! They have some serious issues with white women!

January 8, 2015

Fact of the matter is, these women are usually 4 feet tall, look like children and are basically the rejects of Asia. No Asian man would want them anyway.

That is a terrible thing to say and completely untrue!!

January 8, 2015

I grew up around Asian women that were obsessed with getting a white man. Preferably with blond hair and blue eyes. They blatantly talked about it. They were so fixated on whiteness that they were willing to ignore anything else. It was creepy.

I also grew up around socially awkward guys that did really poorly in dating and were unable to attract anyone. Most of them ended up with Asian wives.

The most common Asian/white pairing I see is plain, average looking Asian woman with unattractive, loserly white man. It makes sense: the guy offers the whitness, the woman offers the fact that she is well...a woman.

Just from a personal observation in a country with high % of Asian population.

I won't disagree with this.

Unfortunately I've seen a lot of minority worship whites in that respect. I have some acquaintances that are Mexican that act as such, or at least go out of their way to tell me that they only go for white guys, etc.

Now attraction in itself isn't a choice at all though.

Edited January 8, 2015 by Biscous

January 9, 2015

Your comment is sad and disregarding

You divide these girls as if they are not human beings or independent with unique personalities and characters

You speak of them as if they are robots or cars!

I don't know how much ridiculous this thread will get, but most of the comments are either condescending, racist, or just plain ignorant!

You people have forgotten that we are all humans

Actually very accurate. Ieris's post that is. I'm mix asian/white male and ..well, women usually are attracted to me when they see me. However, many of the asian women I feel attraction towards are more interested in dating only white guys.

I mean, seriously. I am more likely to see an attractive looking white girl that is open to dating asian men or "no preference" for race than I am to see an attractive asian girl that list anything but her interest only being for a white guy. In fact, I don't think I have ever seen an attractive asian girl list anything but her interest being for white guys only on dating sites.

I am all for people going for what they want, I'm not gonna hate on them, but I really lost respect for them. I mean, geesh...this is your own ****ing race.

I've dated women that were full asian and mixed before too. It really makes me leary to think that they wouldn't date their own race (no body ever thinks I'm part asian).

January 9, 2015

Actually very accurate. Ieris's post that is. I'm mix asian/white male and ..well, women usually are attracted to me when they see me. However, many of the asian women I feel attraction towards are more interested in dating only white guys.

I mean, seriously. I am more likely to see an attractive looking white girl that is open to dating asian men or "no preference" for race than I am to see an attractive asian girl that list anything but her interest only being for a white guy. In fact, I don't think I have ever seen an attractive asian girl list anything but her interest being for white guys only on dating sites.

I am all for people going for what they want, I'm not gonna hate on them, but I really lost respect for them. I mean, geesh...this is your own ****ing race.

I've dated women that were full asian and mixed before too. It really makes me leary to think that they wouldn't date their own race (no body ever thinks I'm part asian).

I agree. I don't mind when it's genuine because everyone has their own preference. But what I can't stand is someone who disowns their own race or puts it down. They clearly have some sort of issues stemming from their past experiences or upbringing.

January 9, 2015

Asian women tend to put white guys on a massive pedestal. I've seen average white guys pull good looking Asian women who 80% of the asian male population would have zero chance with

Lame white guys will go to China/Japan and feast

January 10, 2015

I agree. I don't mind when it's genuine because everyone has their own preference. But what I can't stand is someone who disowns their own race or puts it down. They clearly have some sort of issues stemming from their past experiences or upbringing.

I think it's more to do with Hollywood. Every male lead is a white guy since forever. If a dude other than white is in there, especially asian, it's for comic relief or more likely a bit part doing martial arts or as some kung fu master that teaches some poor white boy to fight so that he can later go on to bang an asian chick.

Only recently has Hollywood been putting in male leads in major movies that are other than white. Black dudes.

I do believe people mostly think for themselves. but I have no doubt that we can be influenced by what is pounded into our heads over and over since birth.

January 10, 2015

The worst part of the whole "yellow fever" crap is that I might want to approach a potential date who happens to be Asian*, but I know her defenses are at triple strength because I'm a middle aged white guy and we are now infamous for being specifically creepy towards Asian women. Of course, that's just one of the many groups of people we've made life hard for - I mean my race, not me, I had nothing to do with it...

*and Asia is a big place. It stretches from India and east Russia through Mongolia down to the Australian coast, and all over the Pacific. So could a Siberian woman count as Asian? How about Aborigine?

And with that, I'm going to bed. G'night, LS.

January 10, 2015

I think it's more to do with Hollywood. Every male lead is a white guy since forever. If a dude other than white is in there, especially asian, it's for comic relief or more likely a bit part doing martial arts or as some kung fu master that teaches some poor white boy to fight so that he can later go on to bang an asian chick.

Only recently has Hollywood been putting in male leads in major movies that are other than white. Black dudes.

I do believe people mostly think for themselves. but I have no doubt that we can be influenced by what is pounded into our heads over and over since birth.

I think if hollywood started putting more asian men in main leads it would turn things around a bit for their broad appeal. There is a bias with the genders that run along masculine/feminine linesimo. With the black race the men are the winners and the women are the losers when it comes to IR dating. On the other side, Asian men are the losers and the women are the winners. Caucasian men and women are in the middle when it comes to masculine/feminine appeal with both sexes doing okay with IR dating.

I don't think I've ever seen a black female with an Asian bf.

With the rise of China you wonder if more Asian men will get to star in hollywood movies as they are now starting to change the scripts in some to cater for Eastern box office. I doubt they will get top billing but might show up more in buddy movies (but not as comic relief like Jackie Chan) or as the villain. China will pump out more big budget movies of there own for the Asian market soon enough that I'm sure will create more Asian stars.

I fully agree with Limo's observation of the While/Asian dating scene. I think its a bit rough to call the Caucasian dudes who date Asian women as losers (many are good earning professionals and not all are total goobers when it comes to women). Yes many don't exactly do well with the local women but they could get one, but will get a more attractive/slim/feminine/devoted gf by dating an Asian woman. I don't get the narkiness towards that pairing as most people who have attitude wouldn't give a shyte if the white guy were single for years or in an less happy relationship with an overweight Caucasian gf.

January 10, 2015

I think if hollywood started putting more asian men in main leads it would turn things around a bit for their broad appeal. There is a bias with the genders that run along masculine/feminine linesimo. With the black race the men are the winners and the women are the losers when it comes to IR dating. On the other side, Asian men are the losers and the women are the winners. Caucasian men and women are in the middle when it comes to masculine/feminine appeal with both sexes doing okay with IR dating.

I don't think I've ever seen a black female with an Asian bf.
With the rise of China you wonder if more Asian men will get to star in hollywood movies as they are now starting to change the scripts in some to cater for Eastern box office. I doubt they will get top billing but might show up more in buddy movies (but not as comic relief like Jackie Chan) or as the villain. China will pump out more big budget movies of there own for the Asian market soon enough that I'm sure will create more Asian stars.

I fully agree with Limo's observation of the While/Asian dating scene. I think its a bit rough to call the Caucasian dudes who date Asian women as losers (many are good earning professionals and not all are total goobers when it comes to women). Yes many don't exactly do well with the local women but they could get one, but will get a more attractive/slim/feminine/devoted gf by dating an Asian woman. I don't get the narkiness towards that pairing as most people who have attitude wouldn't give a shyte if the white guy were single for years or in an less happy relationship with an overweight Caucasian gf.

Hollywood would have absolutely no incentive to cast Asian male lead actors over their white counterparts. None at all. I don't see any highly recognizable or marketable Asian male actors out there that could carry a major motion picture. And no production company would potentially jeopardize millions just for the sake of writing/casting for diversity.

Liberal Hollywood screams "equality" until money is on the line.

January 10, 2015

Hollywood would have absolutely no incentive to cast Asian male lead actors over their white counterparts. None at all. I don't see any highly recognizable or marketable Asian male actors out there that could carry a major motion picture. And no production company would potentially jeopardize millions just for the sake of writing/casting for diversity.

Liberal Hollywood screams "equality" until money is on the line.

I agree I really cant see it while movie decisions get made out of hollywood by old white execs. Majority of US/UK movies have their focus on the domestic market. China & Japan are the 2nd and 3rd biggest economies and even Japan buying out a major US movie studio did not seem to change anything. They filmed a scene in china for the last Transformers movie to pull in more yuan but but it was just token with Asians as expendables getting crushed in fight scenes. The Chinese putting out crouching tiger type movies really wont help unless they broaden their focus from fantasy/martial arts hero, but subtitles wont cut it the west. If China/Japan hit the sci-fi/horror segment they could do well (Japan has done ok but with no household names) If they put out something like Pacific Rim with all Asian cast and a few whites in support roles I reckon it would have still done good. There is not much around in the aging action hero market and an Asian actor who was well built and didn't just rely on martial art could cut it. A jason statham action movie filmed in Asia with him working with an Asian counterpart should do well.

I don't see many Asian men with white gfs where I live. I know more local women who have slept with black dudes than Asian dudes even though there are waaaay more of the later around. The Asian dudes in IR relationships I do see tend to have good physiques (they lift) are bit taller than average and dress stylish and just give off an air of confidence in their walk/mannerisms. They are more westernized. In the two gyms I go to the Asian guys that work out are mostly the Indians. I get on well with them, they are generally very sociable guys,

Hokie - did you happen to see the two Indonesian 'Raid' movies?

Edited January 10, 2015 by ascendotum

January 10, 2015

Hollywood would have absolutely no incentive to cast Asian male lead actors over their white counterparts. None at all. I don't see any highly recognizable or marketable Asian male actors out there that could carry a major motion picture. And no production company would potentially jeopardize millions just for the sake of writing/casting for diversity.

Liberal Hollywood screams "equality" until money is on the line.

I agree.

The Hollywood machine is often there just to big up America, Hollywood films get shown around the globe, they depict and advertise the American way of life and the goal is to influence.

The white American male is the ultimate symbol of power, he is the star, he is the one in control. He may have hiccups along the way, but he is usually ultimately victorious, he gets the girl, the house, the country, the world... If he dies his death is glorious, he is on the side of "good".

He may have a side kick or a woman of another race, but the white male usually calls the shots, he is the leader.

Hollywood is not going to pander to other races and give up that power and influence, are they?

January 10, 2015

I agree. I don't mind when it's genuine because everyone has their own preference. But what I can't stand is someone who disowns their own race or puts it down. They clearly have some sort of issues stemming from their past experiences or upbringing.

Yeah, I recall seeing blonde haired, blue eyed women saying IN their headlines on POF, "Black men only reply". Not sure where this comes from.

I questioned one woman on it, she said she had dated white men in the past, but she claimed "they don't do it" for her.

January 10, 2015

The Asian dudes in IR relationships I do see tend to have good physiques (they lift) are bit taller than average and dress stylish and just give off an air of confidence in their walk/mannerisms. They are more westernized.

The Asian guys I see doing well are the ones that were brought up socialising with women and allowed to understand what the opposite sex finds sexually attractive. Too many are shut away by their parents to focus on their studies/to be controlled/etc. The guys that are comfortable with Western women don't seem to have a problem with dating them.

January 10, 2015

The Asian guys I see doing well are the ones that were brought up socialising with women and allowed to understand what the opposite sex finds sexually attractive. Too many are shut away by their parents to focus on their studies/to be controlled/etc. The guys that are comfortable with Western women don't seem to have a problem with dating them.

That's not really true at all though.

Most women will only date their own race and/or white men. Some will throw one or two others in there, but most only have their own, or their own and white.

Go look it up.

January 10, 2015

ROFL... all you have to do is look at what occurs in Asian society to laugh hysterically at such absurdity.

I mean, lets go out drinking, dining, and f*cking others at a strip club while our wives sit home and accept what we do...

(sigh) It's a great life.

Look up "Enjo Kosai"... and be amused when you reach the point where Wikipedia cites "fewer than 10% of high school girls engage in Enjo Kosai".

Can you imagine what would happen in western society if it was unearthed that 8% or 9% of (western) high school girls were effectively prostitutes on the side????

Why do you assume that Asian women in Asia are the same as Asian women in the United States? I am referring to Asian-Americans. We are not subservient. A lot of times, we probably make more than our husbands. Most of us are highly educated and are quite successful. Most of my Asian girlfriends are pretty feisty and keep their boyfriends in check. Please stop putting all Asian women into one category.

Edited January 10, 2015 by PinkCarnations

January 10, 2015

Hollywood would have absolutely no incentive to cast Asian male lead actors over their white counterparts. None at all. I don't see any highly recognizable or marketable Asian male actors out there that could carry a major motion picture. And no production company would potentially jeopardize millions just for the sake of writing/casting for diversity.

Liberal Hollywood screams "equality" until money is on the line.

Another reason why "The Walking Dead" is cool. And yes, I noticed this before - Glenn kicks the a$$ without math or kung fu, which is a big deal in Hollywood

Yes, it's a supporting role, but in that world, it's plenty. I dunno if Steven Yuen can "open on a weekend" yet, but it's a matter of time.

January 10, 2015

Another reason why "The Walking Dead" is cool. And yes, I noticed this before - Glenn kicks the a$$ without math or kung fu, which is a big deal in Hollywood Yes, it's a supporting role, but in that world, it's plenty. I dunno if Steven Yuen can "open on a weekend" yet, but it's a matter of time.

Yea, I'm pretty sure that guy doesn't date Maggie in real life.

However, that guy could do decent with some real life white women. But he's just going against the odds. 7 or 8 out 10 white women will not date Asian men (or black men, or Indian men), so it's like an obstacle within an obstacle.

January 10, 2015

Another thing about Asian women , so I've noticed, are their ability to look past the looks of their men. They aren't as shallow and not so stuck on looks.

January 10, 2015

This depends a lot on location. Most of the women around here have no problems dating black guys.

If they grow up in a town that is mostly black, then yea they will.

But most won't.

You THINK they will. People don't broadcast racial exclusions.

Go look up your larger city on Match.com and tell me how many white women specifically list black men as an option. I bet it is very, very few.

January 10, 2015

Yea, I'm pretty sure that guy doesn't date Maggie in real life.

However, that guy could do decent with some real life white women. But he's just going against the odds. 7 or 8 out 10 white women will not date Asian men (or black men, or Indian men), so it's like an obstacle within an obstacle.

Is that just due to race and looks, or due to perceived racial stereotypes and their attitude to modern women?

January 10, 2015

Most women will only date their own race and/or white men. Some will throw one or two others in there, but most only have their own, or their own and white.

Go look it up.

Luckily for you though, what most women do doesn't really matter!! I mean there are millions of us, how many do you need who are not only interested in dating our own race and/ or white men!!

January 10, 2015

Another thing about Asian women , so I've noticed, are their ability to look past the looks of their men. They aren't as shallow and not so stuck on looks.

How do you know??

I sure don't feel qualified to speak for any race of men!! Or women either. Even white women like I am!

January 10, 2015

Another thing about Asian women , so I've noticed, are their ability to look past the looks of their men. They aren't as shallow and not so stuck on looks.

I rarely see any truly attractive men, yet most men I know of or who I see out and about are dating, married to or living with women.

There are men who are short, fat, balding, have bad skin, bad teeth and even bad manners, (ie classically "unattractive"), yet I see them everywhere with women and children too.

SO all these white women, (mainly white area I live in) cannot be shallow and stuck on pure looks, can they?...

This is in real life, not OLD.

January 10, 2015

Luckily for you though, what most women do doesn't really matter!! I mean there are millions of us, how many do you need who are not only interested in dating our own race and/ or white men!!

It's not what I NEED.

It's just the principle of it.

So, if I meet a wonderful woman at work, at school, through a friend, get to know her, have some laughs, have great compatibility, BUT there is a 80% chance that she has nixed me from Day 1 because of my race?

I mean, you don't think about that and think that's a little messed up?

Of course, if I only dated, say hot Latina women with big boobs, that was my thing? Well then, I would be like, "I like what I like. I'm not entitled to procreate with anybody. I can't help what I'm attracted to."

Edited January 10, 2015 by JuneJulySeptember

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