Eddy Street Posted January 7, 2015 Posted January 7, 2015 I don't think it has anything to do with white guys thinking they are exotic-erotic or whatever the term is. Fact of the matter is, these women are usually 4 feet tall, look like children and are basically the rejects of Asia. No Asian man would want them anyway. Yes, a lot of them are educated, but that's always second to looks. In the case of white men/Asian women, most of the time it's just a last ditch effort, for both parties, to not become a failed organism. These Asian women have a slight advantage though, since they are basically using these white men to build a new life in America, Canada, New Zealand, Sweden, Britain, Germany or wherever they happen to be.
Eivuwan Posted January 7, 2015 Posted January 7, 2015 I don't think it has anything to do with white guys thinking they are exotic-erotic or whatever the term is. Fact of the matter is, these women are usually 4 feet tall, look like children and are basically the rejects of Asia. No Asian man would want them anyway. Yes, a lot of them are educated, but that's always second to looks. In the case of white men/Asian women, most of the time it's just a last ditch effort, for both parties, to not become a failed organism. These Asian women have a slight advantage though, since they are basically using these white men to build a new life in America, Canada, New Zealand, Sweden, Britain, Germany or wherever they happen to be. If they are happy together, then why would it matter why they got together or how they got together? If they are not happy together then that's sad, but that happens with any couple. Why judge?
Sunfire73 Posted January 7, 2015 Posted January 7, 2015 We are a White Male, Asian Female couple. We just happen to be so attracted to each other and love each other and that's what's the most important thing. 1
SomeDude16 Posted January 7, 2015 Posted January 7, 2015 I like woman who are vanilla, chocolate, cinnamon, Mexican vanilla, Mexican chocolate, Mexican cinnamon, Canadian vanilla, Canadian chocolate, Canadian cinnamon, and any and all variations. The **** I'm reading in this thread astounds me. 3
Pinkdisney Posted January 7, 2015 Posted January 7, 2015 Some white guys prefer someone who is educated, which they find in lots of Asian girls. Also, some people just prefer a different culture from their own. To make things easier, Asian women worship white guys so it works out easily for both parties. I agree with this. My Ex-H left me for an asian woman who from what I know is well educated. My Ex cheated on me with Asian women and a Muslim woman - both who were younger than me, very tiny/thin and as polar opposite of as possible being a 5 foot 8 blond hair size 10 american woman. I think it was deliberate, he was always nagging me about my weight after kids, his now wife is 105 soaking wet.
Noproblem Posted January 7, 2015 Posted January 7, 2015 I don't like this topic I feel it's insulting to all Asian women as if it is a miracle that guys like them and god forbid a WHITE guy like them Why? how could he like these women? You know they are not white and blond like him so how could he do that! How could he betray us!
FitChick Posted January 7, 2015 Posted January 7, 2015 My cousin's wife is from Japan. She is plain and overweight. They met while both were getting their Masters degrees at the same university. My cousin has lived all over the world and dated every nationality (so it seems). He didn't have a preference but picked her to marry. Her parents weren't too thrilled but they've accepted him now.
SincereOnlineGuy Posted January 7, 2015 Posted January 7, 2015 Asian girls are not subservient at all ROFL... all you have to do is look at what occurs in Asian society to laugh hysterically at such absurdity. I mean, lets go out drinking, dining, and f*cking others at a strip club while our wives sit home and accept what we do... (sigh) It's a great life. Look up "Enjo Kosai"... and be amused when you reach the point where Wikipedia cites "fewer than 10% of high school girls engage in Enjo Kosai". Can you imagine what would happen in western society if it was unearthed that 8% or 9% of (western) high school girls were effectively prostitutes on the side????
SincereOnlineGuy Posted January 7, 2015 Posted January 7, 2015 these women are usually 4 feet tall, look like children and are basically the rejects of Asia. No Asian man would want them anyway. Yes, because at 4' 5", most Asian men are well above that.
Eddy Street Posted January 7, 2015 Posted January 7, 2015 If they are happy together, then why would it matter why they got together or how they got together? If they are not happy together then that's sad, but that happens with any couple. Why judge? I doubt there is love involved is these situations. Note: I did not say all. These guys are basically paying for company, they're just a means to an end for a lot of these women. It's more than just sad, it's an embarrassment to western culture and especially to the subset of western culture labeled "white". Luckily the west is more than just white dudes.
SomeDude16 Posted January 7, 2015 Posted January 7, 2015 I doubt there is love involved is these situations. Note: I did not say all. These guys are basically paying for company, they're just a means to an end for a lot of these women. It's more than just sad, it's an embarrassment to western culture and especially to the subset of western culture labeled "white". Luckily the west is more than just white dudes. You don't speak for me or for anyone else for that matter. It may be an embarrassment to YOU but the world doesn't revolve around you. If "basically paying for company" makes both parties happy who are you or me to judge?? Open your eyes it's 2015 not 1800 stop worrying so much about others. 1
Eddy Street Posted January 7, 2015 Posted January 7, 2015 You don't speak for me or for anyone else for that matter. It may be an embarrassment to YOU but the world doesn't revolve around you. If "basically paying for company" makes both parties happy who are you or me to judge?? Open your eyes it's 2015 not 1800 stop worrying so much about others. All I'm doing here is stating an observational fact. White guys are given too much credit imo when it comes to "conquering" Asian women. It's the opposite.
lino Posted January 7, 2015 Posted January 7, 2015 Don't you think that's sad? I mean, if you talked on the phone with me for 5 hours, you wouldn't be able to tell what race I was. But as soon as you (not YOU, but some woman, you know what I mean) saw me, she'd nix me because she wasn't attracted to that race. Of course, It'd be the same if I was white and ugly, which I think is also equally sad. And I know "That's just the way it is". But it's still sad. Not sure I understand what you mean here. Are you an Asian male?
Eddy Street Posted January 7, 2015 Posted January 7, 2015 And let me just add that Asian women are very attractive. Probably more attractive on average than Caucasian women. That being said, I haven't seen a white male with an attractive Asian woman in all my years of seeing white males with Asian women. Which just further reinforces my point.
lino Posted January 7, 2015 Posted January 7, 2015 I doubt there is love involved is these situations. Note: I did not say all. These guys are basically paying for company, they're just a means to an end for a lot of these women. It's more than just sad, it's an embarrassment to western culture and especially to the subset of western culture labeled "white". Luckily the west is more than just white dudes. Many men are essentially just paying for company, no matter what race the woman. Society places the responsibility of payment ( paying for dates, presents, engagement rings, weddings, being the bread winner, etc) on men whether they're married to East Asian women or otherwise.
EgoJoe Posted January 7, 2015 Posted January 7, 2015 Interracial couples in my state Washington are not uncommon in any variety. I remember going to school in Philadelphia and for the first time seeing the remnants of real racism. Here is the reality I see. The idea that Asian women in Australia go for societies rejects is absurd. Real emotionally mature people are looking for a whole lot more than what is perceived on the surface. Perhaps it's because I live in a really amalgamated place that I'm just astounded at the seemingly backwards thinking. Maybe they just see people. I'm not in a relationship with this Chinese girl but she's a catch by both cultural standards. 3
Eternal Sunshine Posted January 7, 2015 Posted January 7, 2015 I grew up around Asian women that were obsessed with getting a white man. Preferably with blond hair and blue eyes. They blatantly talked about it. They were so fixated on whiteness that they were willing to ignore anything else. It was creepy. I also grew up around socially awkward guys that did really poorly in dating and were unable to attract anyone. Most of them ended up with Asian wives. The most common Asian/white pairing I see is plain, average looking Asian woman with unattractive, loserly white man. It makes sense: the guy offers the whitness, the woman offers the fact that she is well...a woman. Just from a personal observation in a country with high % of Asian population. 1
Emilia Posted January 7, 2015 Posted January 7, 2015 I don't have much experience with this topic but I'll share what I have. One of my best friends is married to an asian girl and he couldn't be happier. My GF, who is a great GF by almost any standard, openly admits my buddy's wife puts her to shame. The girl takes great pride in the fact that she is a good wife and it shows. As a white guy, that attitude is incredibly appealing. Most women I know over here always seem to be looking for what a man can do for her, my friend's wife is always talking about what she can do for her man. You mean there are women that still think like that in the West? I think the subservient point in earlier posts has been just confirmed. 2
Hopes Posted January 7, 2015 Posted January 7, 2015 hrmm, I lost my viriginity to a japanese girl. She was the first girl who showed attention to me. She had a nice nice ass. She was hot pretty hot and flirty. She made my dick look huge. I also dated an indian, a mexican, two germans, a ukranian, and a few americans. I am an american white guy. I do not care where they are from. I care if they are fun to hang out with.
Els Posted January 8, 2015 Posted January 8, 2015 (edited) Reading threads like this always make me feel depressed about the future of humanity. So many years of global culture, education, progress... and at the end of the day so many people still reduce other humans to the color of their skin. Either we're amazing servants who treat their man like gods and ensure they want nothing, or we're submissive mice with no minds of our own or standards. Impossible that we could just be people, individuals with differences of our own just like you. At times like these I sometimes feel relieved that my SO happens to be East Asian as well, and sorry for my friends with Caucasian SOs who are being judged with such ignorance. (Actually, scrap that, I'm sure there are plenty of stereotypes about East Asian men as well. Why stop at just the women, right? ) Perhaps it's because I live in a really amalgamated place that I'm just astounded at the seemingly backwards thinking. Maybe they just see people. Agreed. Edited January 8, 2015 by Elswyth 4
Ieris Posted January 8, 2015 Posted January 8, 2015 From what I see and hear - this is how I would break it down: Poor Asian girl - born and bred in Asia See white men as a prize, even if the guy is below average. Rich Asian girls born - born and bred in Asia Stick with Asian men Bilingual Asian girls - born and bred in Western countries Often referred to as "bananas" - yellow on the outside but white on the inside, see white men as equals. They would date both Asian and white guys, but end up preferring one over the other so can swing either way. White Wannabe Asian girls - born and bred in Western countries Who dress, act and behave like they're white who like to emphasize how they speak fluent English without an accent to separate themselves from other Asian girls. These are the ones who date white guys exclusively and when you see them walking down the street with a white guy they feel proud of their conquest and look down on other Asians. Hot Asian girls - born and bred in Western countries Most will go for other hot Asian guys but there are a selection who prefer Caucasians and their first choice is the mix race white/asian guy, if not they will settle for a white guy. Unattractive Asian girls - born and bred in Western countries The Asian guys don't want them so they settle for below average white guys. --- I'm not stating this as facts but just the impression I get and of course there are exceptions. So I don't think Asian girls are crazy for white men as some articles make them out to be. Maybe those living in poverty and want a better lifestyle but the ABCs, BBCs, CBCs, ABAs etc don't prize them the same way overseas Asians do. 2
piggyoink Posted January 8, 2015 Posted January 8, 2015 The Mayor of Vancouver BC(50, Caucasian) was reported yesterday to be dating a Chinese Actress(31). That's an interesting age gap!
Noproblem Posted January 8, 2015 Posted January 8, 2015 From what I see and hear - this is how I would break it down: Poor Asian girl - born and bred in Asia See white men as a prize, even if the guy is below average. Rich Asian girls born - born and bred in Asia Stick with Asian men Bilingual Asian girls - born and bred in Western countries Often referred to as "bananas" - yellow on the outside but white on the inside, see white men as equals. They would date both Asian and white guys, but end up preferring one over the other so can swing either way. White Wannabe Asian girls - born and bred in Western countries Who dress, act and behave like they're white who like to emphasize how they speak fluent English without an accent to separate themselves from other Asian girls. These are the ones who date white guys exclusively and when you see them walking down the street with a white guy they feel proud of their conquest and look down on other Asians. Hot Asian girls - born and bred in Western countries Most will go for other hot Asian guys but there are a selection who prefer Caucasians and their first choice is the mix race white/asian guy, if not they will settle for a white guy. Unattractive Asian girls - born and bred in Western countries The Asian guys don't want them so they settle for below average white guys. --- I'm not stating this as facts but just the impression I get and of course there are exceptions. So I don't think Asian girls are crazy for white men as some articles make them out to be. Maybe those living in poverty and want a better lifestyle but the ABCs, BBCs, CBCs, ABAs etc don't prize them the same way overseas Asians do. Your comment is sad and disregarding You divide these girls as if they are not human beings or independent with unique personalities and characters You speak of them as if they are robots or cars! I don't know how much ridiculous this thread will get, but most of the comments are either condescending, racist, or just plain ignorant! You people have forgotten that we are all humans 4
still_an_Angel Posted January 8, 2015 Posted January 8, 2015 The Mayor of Vancouver BC(50, Caucasian) was reported yesterday to be dating a Chinese Actress(31). That's an interesting age gap! The mayor of Auckland, New Zealand had a 2 year affair with a 30something Asian girl. A lot of jokes went with that including warning young Asian girls to be wary of older Caucasian male, seems a lot of white guys are wanting Asian girls after the scandal broke out.
piggyoink Posted January 8, 2015 Posted January 8, 2015 The mayor of Auckland, New Zealand had a 2 year affair with a 30something Asian girl. A lot of jokes went with that including warning young Asian girls to be wary of older Caucasian male, seems a lot of white guys are wanting Asian girls after the scandal broke out. I see. However, that was an affair lol. What makes the Mayor of Vancouver situation more interesting is that it isn't an affair. He's divorced and the Asian woman in question is not an average citizen either. This news just came out yesterday so I assume it will travel around the world soon. Mayor Len Brown: The other woman - National - NZ Herald News
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