sm2281 Posted December 30, 2014 Posted December 30, 2014 I have been here for the last couple of months writing about this guy I have been dating and have gotten alot of good advice. I was conflicted for one reason or another about breaking up with him because i could see positive things about our relationship. I've tried to make it work out, and now we were supposed to be planning a small weekend getaway. I keep finding myself saying I don't want to go. When he is here, all I do is think to myself I wish you would just go home already. The last straw was when I got him alot of great thoughtful christmas gifts and got socks and a coffee pot in return. He has not made any effort or had any intention of making it up to me, even though I was upset. I can't get past everything else. I am not good at this. . . I want to do it by phone so he has no reason to come back here. . . Any suggestions? please help me find the strength and the words. I am putty in his hands when he is present. . .
Rydo Posted December 30, 2014 Posted December 30, 2014 Just tell him you dont see the relationship going anywhere and that you don't want to continue seeing him? It doesn't have to be complicates, if you want to stop seeing him then you just stop seeing him. 1
Author sm2281 Posted December 31, 2014 Author Posted December 31, 2014 I let him know that I wasnt in %100 and now that I have had to deal with everything . . . in an earlier post it was deleting his ex off his FB and then deleting her because he was oh so close to her - yada yada - and i mentioned that and now he has changed his relationship status putting undue pressure on me. I need strength. . . .
Author sm2281 Posted December 31, 2014 Author Posted December 31, 2014 like what - it's all cheerios and roses now. RIGHT NOW. Like I am supposed to want to go on his page and like all his friends (17 likes by mostly women in 2 minutes) . . . .and i am supposed to be just cheery and supportive now. After everything. . .
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