1q3455402828193 Posted December 30, 2014 Posted December 30, 2014 So, I have a very complicated relationship with this guy, who so happens to be an Aquarius (I am a Gemini)...for those who are interested in horoscope compatibility. I've known him for 3 years and it has been so on and off for a while, partly due to the distance. We are never in the same place for a very long time. But, any time we find time to meet up, the chemistry is intense. I will briefly re-cap some things we have went through: - In 2011, around the time we just met, conversation was AMAZING!!! We were on the phone for hours and enjoying each other's company. Then, it just changed so abruptly. Almost like overnight. He started to ignore my phone calls and texts OR when I would text him, he would take days, weeks, or months to respond. - In 2012, he came to visit me at college. And it was great. We spent hours talking, flirting, and cuddling. He even held my hand in public. Before he left, he hugged me and kissed me on my cheek. - Couple of weeks later around that time, I visited him and spent a night. We did have sex. I guess he thought it was amazing, but I thought it was horrible lol. That was the last time I had sex with him. -Since then, I have only seen him twice. But, we communicate alot!!! I did make an effort to see him this past weekend and it was great!!! So, what's the problem? I feel like we get into more arguments not because we are incompatible, but because he wants to see me and most of the time I cant. Recently, he said something to me that I cant let go of. He told me that I am his, and he is mine. We are just on a hiatus until we get ourselves to a better position to be together. Yet, we are STILL FRIENDS!!!!! Should I wait for him? I tried moving forward last month...I told him I went on my first date (he doesnt like when i hide things from him).....and he got upset and now he wont let it go. Is this him being jealous or controlling? Does he like me or is he playing with my heart? I know this is all over the place. But, i just need some direction, so I can take the necessary steps to move forward with or without seeing him in my future. Thanks!!!
Diezel Posted December 30, 2014 Posted December 30, 2014 Seems like the balance has shifted in your favor. You were all over it when he wasn't responding but now that he's all in, you seem to be all out. Don't ask us whether you should stay or go. Ask yourself: What do YOU want? 1
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