Does anyone else feel the urge to bite their wife/spouse?

[Clockwork]

Okay hear me out. This isn't during sex. But during times of cuddling or during times of laughter or whatever. My wife doesn't like my spontaneous moments of biting her (in the shoulder or wherever) because, well, quite simply she is getting bitten! This is just me losing control at times and it is one of my ways of showing affection (yeah, I know). I try telling her that I do this because I find her attractive. She knows this but has never liked it very much, which is fine. But I am just wondering is this something anyone else shares? Do you feel the urge to bite your significant other in a playful manner just because they do something cute or whatever? If I am the only one, then I'll accept that.

[bathtub-row]

I can't say I've done it a lot but have on occasion. I don't think there's anything wrong with it if it's not painful. I mean, little playful bites are kind of neat and exciting. However, you shouldn't do it if your wife doesn't like it.

[WonderWoman911]

My significant and I bite each other during playful times and intimate times. But when we bite each other, it's not a "I want to rip your skin off", type of situation, lol....:lmao:During playful times it's just a gesture of having fun and acting silly. During intimate times it's a gesture of being naughty. So yes, I understand you. It's all in fun.

[Clockwork]

I can't say I've done it a lot but have on occasion. I don't think there's anything wrong with it if it's not painful. I mean, little playful bites are kind of neat and exciting. However, you shouldn't do it if your wife doesn't like it.

 

As weird as it sounds, it is almost like a release valve for me.

[TigerLilly78]

My Bfs done this a few times I smacked him out of knee jerk reaction once cause it hurt kind of happy to see its not just him playful nibbles are nice but not bites that leave marks..

[contact1]

Does biting each other's head off count?

[proactivedreamer]

my Ex use to that this all the time, and sometimes it would hurt a little. He was very affectionate and playful. I did not really like the biting, but I still thought it was sweet. He sounds similar to you in that way. He said he could not explain the urge he had to bite me.

[denise_xo]

It's not something I think I'd particularly appreciate. But hey, out of all the urges people have, this one doesn't sound too bad

[spanz1]

nah I just had lunch, and she has a bra on too.

[Tocook]

I think it's cute. It sounds like you're overflowing with affection for your wife and it's coming out as a love bite. I've done it to my kids sometimes, which I know is a completely different thing, but kissing and hugging them just isn't enough.

[whichwayisup]

How hard do you bite? Enough to leave teeth marks or break skin?

[goodyblue]

I have done it. I also clench my teeth when my guy is so freakin cute I just want to eat him up!

[Emerald_11]

If your wife does not like it- you need to stop doing that... Really, try to control yourself! Biting can really hurt! This was a common lesson I used to teach pre-school aged children. Biting is really an instinctual thing. I think a little bit of sexy naughty biting is fun sometimes but not all the time or anytime something cute happens it sounds like it could get out of hand. Do you decide to bite her when you are just alone or out in public in front of other people also? Perhaps so it doesn't get to be a problem for her maybe saving the biting for only sometimes or certain times if she doesn't mind it and or will tolerate that form of affection you are giving her. My husband bites me occasionally when we are messing around usually just when we are alone. So I guess I "get" the biting thing a little. If I say anything about it hurting he just stops doing it & says sorry & that's it...

 

 

 

 

A good friend of mine was married for 5 years & then they divorced she still has a small scar on her side on her rib cage from a time when he bit her and it broke the skin. It is a bad memory for her. This is really all your wife's call if she accepts your gestures or not...you could always give her a massage instead of biting her.

[Mal78]

Okay hear me out. This isn't during sex. But during times of cuddling or during times of laughter or whatever. My wife doesn't like my spontaneous moments of biting her (in the shoulder or wherever) because, well, quite simply she is getting bitten! This is just me losing control at times and it is one of my ways of showing affection (yeah, I know). I try telling her that I do this because I find her attractive. She knows this but has never liked it very much, which is fine. But I am just wondering is this something anyone else shares? Do you feel the urge to bite your significant other in a playful manner just because they do something cute or whatever? If I am the only one, then I'll accept that.

 

I have done this with my own children, "you are so darn cute I could *eat* you". Of course this usually stopped when they were 3ish. For me it was very impulsive... it was like.... "oh my goodness I just have to tell you RIGHT NOW how cute you are".

 

I can see them being teenagers/adults (I have 5) them not bringing impressed and would equate it to me babying them(not that I don't think about it once in a while).

 

All I can suggest is gain self control if she isn't comfortable or participant.

 

To be honest I would LOVE if my H did that to me. You might have to find another outlet to express yourself that she is comfortable with

[Clockwork]

How hard do you bite? Enough to leave teeth marks or break skin?

 

Oh heck no, I'm not a crocodile. There is no blood, no breaking of the skin. It annoys her more than anything. No scars or nothing. I once bit her in the shoulder when she was coming out of the shower. I knew I was going to get a hard elbow in the stomach but it was worth it.

 

 

Anyway, no, the biting isn't hard.

[devilish innocent]

I like to give my husband light bites when we're cuddling and I'm feeling tense. It actually turns him on so it's never been a problem.

[Clockwork]

I have done this with my own children, "you are so darn cute I could *eat* you". Of course this usually stopped when they were 3ish. For me it was very impulsive... it was like.... "oh my goodness I just have to tell you RIGHT NOW how cute you are".

 

I can see them being teenagers/adults (I have 5) them not bringing impressed and would equate it to me babying them(not that I don't think about it once in a while).

 

To be honest I would LOVE if my H did that to me. You might have to find another outlet to express yourself that she is comfortable with

 

With your kids it is a whole different ballgame. And yes, it would bother them if they were teenagers of course. My dad used to just give us bear hugs when we were teenagers, even headbutts. Not kidding, haha, that was just his way of doing things I guess.

 

 

With my wife the other forms of "letting it out" aren't always that much better. Sometimes I squeeze her, she likes that because it helps her back. But it doesn't have the same "release" as a bite.