dragonfire13 Posted December 29, 2014 Posted December 29, 2014 Thought I would share an odd experience. I met a guy ONCE, and in the resulting convos between dates, a guy started going on about how certain types of clothing would look "so good" on me. It all began by him randomly saying how he was imagining about how pretty I must be looking that day. I joked it out, and he then proceeded with this detailed description: Him: "I had you down like this, black ankle boots, black tights, denim skirt/shorts, denim jacket, ponytail hair...just think that would suit you." Me: "That's a very detailed picture you've painted there... and yeah, I would never wear double denim..." Him: "Well you should...with black tights, 1-2 inch heels and a dry ponytail, think you'd look damn sexy hun, no doubt." I don't know if this was his warped attempt at dirty talk, or if he just has a very vivid imagination, but I have never heard anything like that from a guy before, even guys I've been in longterm relationships with.
aggie382 Posted December 29, 2014 Posted December 29, 2014 I'm not an object or a doll to dress up so that would turn me off.
newmoon Posted December 29, 2014 Posted December 29, 2014 i come across it all the time. it's just imagination and fantasy when they say stuff like that. big deal.
CaliGypsy Posted December 29, 2014 Posted December 29, 2014 Sounds like he's fantasizing about you wearing certain outfits. It's normal IMO . (albeit quite soon) A guy I was with previously was like that. He'd tell me he'd like to see me in cowboy boots, a mans dress shirt stub no bra (his shirt) a short skirt or short shorts . Sometimes the outfit he described was leather . We did have an intimate relationship and I enjoyed it when he did this.
Tayken Posted December 29, 2014 Posted December 29, 2014 I don't know if this was his warped attempt at dirty talk, or if he just has a very vivid imagination, but I have never heard anything like that from a guy before, even guys I've been in longterm relationships with. Someone has been watching too much Dexter or the other similar show....Yeah, this is weird indeed especially as he was very detailed
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