TB1608 Posted December 28, 2014 Posted December 28, 2014 I was dating a 24 year old guy this summer and we took it super slow, to the point where it was obvious that he wasn't all that into me and things just slowly faded. He always used the "I'm so busy" excuse with me. We ended things and I wasn't too crushed because I felt it was a maturity thing, I'm older and he lives with his mom and just started working. Well I immediately found out that he was dating a hot 19 year old party girl the day he broke up with me and they've had a crazy fast romance ever since that crashed just a month later. He had already changed his facebook status to "In a relationship" after just a month etc... pictures of them together every day and constant updates which I found to be embarrassing since they hardly knew each other. Well as soon as they started officially dating on fb and i suppose in real life, they had a huge fight and broke up a few days shy of their " 2 months". He called me the same day they broke up to apologise to me saying she was a huge party girl and he didnt trust her. He deleted her off facebook and changed his status. Well... the apology tour didn't last long as he got back together with her a week later after their huge fight and deleted ME. I was so confused because he begged me to unblock him and to call him whenever I wanted and to "be friends again". His fb status changed back to In a relationship and I was just so confused by it all. Now they're back together and back at posting tons of pics everywhere so I've been avoiding social media because I can't pretend it doesn't hurt. Will they last after so much drama in just two months? I'm so confused by his behaviour and why he was contacting me so quickly after if he was so into her-- then cutting me off a week later, deleting me and blocking me from all social media when I never contacted him at all. I feel like he's going to crash again with her because hes moving so fast with her after their huge fight but maybe I was just there for his ego?
d0nnivain Posted December 28, 2014 Posted December 28, 2014 Some do. Some don't. It depends on the people involved. You will feel better when you unfriend him from FB. No good will come into your life by you looking at what he's doing now without you. 1
Absinthe Posted December 29, 2014 Posted December 29, 2014 It really has nothing to do with you. I feel differently about each guy I've ever dated and there is absolutely no logic to it. Leave him to it.
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