Katiebell Posted December 28, 2014 Posted December 28, 2014 My bf and I broke up back in October. It was a REALLY bad break up. We both called eachother terrible names, taunted eachother and couldn't even look at eachother at one point. It was so bad that our mutual friends didnt want to hang out with us at the same time. He insulted me so bad one night that I decked him in the face. I've never experienced such negativity before over a break up. I sent him a really nasty email (when we first broke up) to tell him I wanted nothing to do with him. That email was .... Let's just say not very nice. I was very honest in the email however. I sent it because I was tired of the ongoing fighting. I have since then apologized for the email through text message. I let him know that it was wrong to say those things to someone whether u like them or not. He said that he hates me and wants me as far away from him as possible. We both work in the airport, so I see him sometimes. Usually we ignore each others existence. Through October-Nov we didn't look each other's way or speak to each other. It's like we never knew eachother at all. It was so hard for me because I still love him very much. Lately whenever we see eachother he makes indirect conversation with me. If someone else is speaking to me, he responds for me or makes a comment towards me. We've been through security (again we work in the airport) several times together lately. The first time TSA asked openly who was the owner of a huge suitcase(wasn't me). He pointed at me and then said to me "I'm going to tell them what you have in your bag" and he smiled at me. He also started taunting me about hitting him saying "hit me again" in a joking way. The next time he randomly told me that I smelled good. Sometimes when I go to my car, his car is parked right next to mine or extremely close. I've also caught him staring at me a few times. There's been no apologies or any talk about what happened between us. I found it weird that he just tried to talk to me without acknowledging anything that happened. Since I wanted to see where things were, I texted him on Christmas saying "Merry Christmas". He texted back "Seriously????" Which threw me off because this was the same guy that was telling me I smelled good the week before. I didn't understand why something like saying Merry Christmas on Christmas was so bad. So I told him I will not talk to him if he doesn't want me to and he didn't respond. Then the day after I saw him at work again and I just walked past him and he was making loud noises while I was infront of him as if he wanted me to hear him or acknowledge that he's behind me. Eventually the same day he indirectly started speaking to me again when someone else asked me a question, he answered for me. I was wondering why is he speaking to me if he just got pissed at me for saying Merry Christmas. Last night when I got off again he was parked right beside me. I'm so confused. I have no idea what this guy is doing or what he's thinking. One of his friends said that I'm the first girl that doesn't do everything that he says or that he had wrapped around his finger. The same friend also told me that I possibly remind him of the mother of his child as they had a very volatile relationship. Also she and I are both mixed girls. We both have one Caucasian parent and one African american parent. He confirmed this one night to his friend that I remind him a lot of her. I love this man very much. He keeps making conversation with me and giving me compliments but it seems if I say anything to him, it's a problem. If he really wanted to be away from me he could park somewhere else (there are four different lots). I am only permitted to park in the one that I park in. He can park in any of the 4. Idk what's his deal. He SAYS that he hates me but his actions are so off. It's so immature and I wish there could be just straight forward talk. .
Diezel Posted December 28, 2014 Posted December 28, 2014 My bf and I broke up back in October. It was a REALLY bad break up. We both called eachother terrible names, taunted eachother and couldn't even look at eachother at one point. He insulted me so bad one night that I decked him in the face. It's so immature and I wish there could be just straight forward talk. . Yep, you both are immature, to the EXTREME. To the point of assault and battery. Apparently that is what happens when you two have "straight forward talk". Break up with him already PERMANENTLY. Get into a healthy relationship. This guy clearly isn't any good for you nor you for him. 1
Author Katiebell Posted December 28, 2014 Author Posted December 28, 2014 Yep, you both are immature, to the EXTREME. To the point of assault and battery. Apparently that is what happens when you two have "straight forward talk". Break up with him already PERMANENTLY. Get into a healthy relationship. This guy clearly isn't any good for you nor you for him. I clearly get where ur coming from. Trust me I NEVER intended for things to get so crazy.
Diezel Posted December 28, 2014 Posted December 28, 2014 I clearly get where ur coming from. Trust me I NEVER intended for things to get so crazy. No one ever does. But to repeat the patterns is insanity. So why not officially end this charade you two call a relationship and put the deathknell in it. This. Is. Not. Healthy.
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