singlelife Posted December 27, 2014 Share Posted December 27, 2014 If so what's the point? To drive him away because Idk if that tactic works a lot. Link to post Share on other sites
coolheadal Posted December 27, 2014 Share Posted December 27, 2014 Has this happen you? No one can figure out what in these type of women minds? Why they do things awful tricks (games). Some find it amusing to do. Because they have nothing else better to do with their time. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Satu Posted December 27, 2014 Share Posted December 27, 2014 Nobody can make you feel anything. You feel what you feel because of who you are, and the way that you're put together. Once you really understand that, it changes many things for the better. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
callingyouuu Posted December 27, 2014 Share Posted December 27, 2014 Mature women usually don't. Younger, less experienced women use jealousy as a tool to make their partner feel a stronger desire to chase after them. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Tayken Posted December 28, 2014 Share Posted December 28, 2014 If so what's the point? To drive him away because Idk if that tactic works a lot. Yes they do...it's the most childish behaviour, and I think some of them encourage each other to keep doing that because apparently, "it will make the guy want them more" Link to post Share on other sites
toscaroscura Posted December 28, 2014 Share Posted December 28, 2014 Younger girls confuse jealousy with love and devotion, and all that media kids grow up on, featuring doggedly obsessed (usually male) lovers, doesn't help matters. But callingyouuu is right, mature women don't brook that nonsense. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author singlelife Posted December 28, 2014 Author Share Posted December 28, 2014 hmmmmmmmmmmmm Link to post Share on other sites
Danda Posted December 28, 2014 Share Posted December 28, 2014 People who are insecure and incapable of introspection / personal growth often try to bring others down to their level (so to speak) as a coping or self-soothing mechanic. My second boyfriend tried to make me jealous at just about every opportunity, usually via comparisons in which I just so happened to always come out inferior, and sometimes by blatantly bragging about how he was getting hit on by every vagina within 50 feet of him on any given day. I put up with that (among other things) for over 3 years, so I can report that it doesn't get better, only worse. The underlying insecurity and immaturity isn't something you can 'fix' in someone else. So if a guy/gal tries to play this game with you just run for the hills. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
almond Posted December 28, 2014 Share Posted December 28, 2014 Silly little girls do. Real women don't. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Diezel Posted December 28, 2014 Share Posted December 28, 2014 Some girls do. That's about as much as you are going to get. Because not all do, just some. Link to post Share on other sites
Author singlelife Posted December 28, 2014 Author Share Posted December 28, 2014 why risk turning him off? Link to post Share on other sites
TabbyHearts Posted December 28, 2014 Share Posted December 28, 2014 I don't think they realize they are risking anything. The women who do this are acting like little girls in high school, but typically only when the guy isn't being forthcoming with his feelings, like a ploy to make the guy come after the girl and "realize" he doesn't like seeing her with someone else. Link to post Share on other sites
GemmaUK Posted December 28, 2014 Share Posted December 28, 2014 I've never done this but every man I dated has. They didn't like it that I wasn't bothered and told them to go after whoever it was and that they could go right now. I don't fight over a man, he can choose where he wants to be. Link to post Share on other sites
truth_seeker Posted December 28, 2014 Share Posted December 28, 2014 People who are insecure and incapable of introspection / personal growth often try to bring others down to their level (so to speak) as a coping or self-soothing mechanic. Abso-fricken-lutely! I agree that if you encounter anyone who displays this kind of behavior, drop them and get as far away from them as possible. These kinds of people need a psychiatrist not a relationship. I'll never understand why some people try to work things out, or give people a chance to see if they will change. No. They will not change. All they do is suck the good energy out of your body. Link to post Share on other sites
Otter2569 Posted December 28, 2014 Share Posted December 28, 2014 Dont waste your time. Its insecure and a sign of trouble ahead...trust me on this. I had a similar experience and it continued even after we started dating. The sex was crazy but so was the chic. I ended up having to physically remove her and her things from my house - great stories to tell but so not worth the pain and suffering. Link to post Share on other sites
JaneDoe12 Posted December 28, 2014 Share Posted December 28, 2014 When a woman does that that can only mean two things: she's insecure and/or she's immature. Not a good sign,obviously. Link to post Share on other sites
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