Wellman12 Posted December 27, 2014 Posted December 27, 2014 I met a girl some months ago. We got along great, had good convo and went out on several dates. Then she suddenly she disappeared and stopped responding to my messages. Some months later she reached out stating personal family reasons for the disappearing act. I accepted and we picked back up good convo and several dates. Then poof gone again. Ive called and text but no response its been about a week we would typically be in contact reguarly... Should I reach out again or let it go?
coolheadal Posted December 27, 2014 Posted December 27, 2014 Sounds like a catch 22 situation there. Might have answered your own question? You see to have some doubts about this so called what would you call it? Really only seeing each other when she can make it happen. You can't expect it to continue beyond that because she goes MIA = missing in action. Wake-up! Hello this is your inner mind saying move on or just keep her as a side friend only. Go out when she's can make it happen. I would move on to find a more stable person. So you can date, and see how things develop with you. It has to click right otherwise just won't be happy with each other.
losangelena Posted December 27, 2014 Posted December 27, 2014 Let this one go. You deserve someone who will give you an explanation for their disappearing act. Or better yet don't just disappear. 1
KatZee Posted December 28, 2014 Posted December 28, 2014 Let it go... let it go... can't hold it back anymore... LET IT GO! Let. it. GOOOOOO. Turn away and slam the door! Oh lord, it turned into a Frozen performance. True story though. You're a back burner guy. I'm sure whatever/whoever pulled her away the first time, has pulled her away again. 1
preraph Posted December 28, 2014 Posted December 28, 2014 She could either have a really chaotic family or life or could just date around a lot. I don't like people who don't let me on or off the hook, so it wouldn't be for me unless she opened up and let you know of some ongoing family stuff keeping her busy, like a terminally ill parent she was caring for or something like that. But short of a big life problem like that, she's just not very good at communicating.
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