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Ex posted christmas card saying sorry for everything that's happened this year and hope I can still have a good Xmas, broke up 3.5 months ago.

First sign of any remorse and apology but it's just breadcrumbs I guess , didn't want to reply but sent text after a drinking session wishing her happy Xmas too and I will Miss her but understand her decision and if we can both be happier with other people then all what we feeling now will be worth it .

Got a reply saying she will miss me too, going to go back to NC now and I don't hold any hope but it nice to get a small apology if nothing else as there been nothing before this

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I think it's good to get an apology and I think you dealt with it nicely. Sounds like you know what you're doing, hopefully 2015 will be a better year for you x

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Yep, there's nothing really to read into it. It's the holidays, she may be feeling a bit lonely or nostalgic, but nothing in there about getting back or she made a mistake, so yes just a breadcrumb. you did fine other than I wouldn't have said that I missed her. That should come from her. Get back on NC and ignore the breadcrumbs.

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Ex posted christmas card saying sorry for everything that's happened this year and hope I can still have a good Xmas, broke up 3.5 months ago.

First sign of any remorse and apology but it's just breadcrumbs I guess , didn't want to reply but sent text after a drinking session wishing her happy Xmas too and I will Miss her but understand her decision and if we can both be happier with other people then all what we feeling now will be worth it .

Got a reply saying she will miss me too, going to go back to NC now and I don't hold any hope but it nice to get a small apology if nothing else as there been nothing before this

 

 

I have read your other posts detailing your story.

 

Your story is a common one around here. Girlfriend cheats and leaves you for another man.

 

So sorry you are having to go through all of this heartache, pain, and suffering.

 

Not trying to kick you while you are down, but you should have ignored her text. She was only trying to ease her guilt. Your reply didn't help you in the least but must have really helped her knowing you are cool with it all.

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Ex posted christmas card saying sorry for everything that's happened this year and hope I can still have a good Xmas, broke up 3.5 months ago.

First sign of any remorse and apology but it's just breadcrumbs I guess , didn't want to reply but sent text after a drinking session wishing her happy Xmas too and I will Miss her but understand her decision and if we can both be happier with other people then all what we feeling now will be worth it .

Got a reply saying she will miss me too, going to go back to NC now and I don't hold any hope but it nice to get a small apology if nothing else as there been nothing before this

 

Leave it at that, and exit through the main entrance with your head held high.

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What gets me being a non cheater myself is that they should realise they would get more respect from us if they told us the truth. But I suppose the world is split into two groups, cheaters are only cheating themselves in the long run though

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lil hoodlum Established Member

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Cheaters are selfish people so they are only cocerned about themselves.

 

If someone were to cheat and be honest about it, they would be showing cocern for you. That's not the way it works in their playbook. Rule #1 is to never admit anything and deny everything if questioned.

 

 

I hope I cleared that up for everyone reading this. :lmao:

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What gets me being a non cheater myself is that they should realise they would get more respect from us if they told us the truth. But I suppose the world is split into two groups, cheaters are only cheating themselves in the long run though

 

They don't care about your respect. They don't respect you, so why would they care if you respect them?

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