When you really love someone, you wanna give them your best

[Evening]

(Pardon me the cheesy face next to the title, I have honestly no idea how it get it there. Seriously.)

 

 

I feel that way. I even start to freak out, if I haven't done something what they have told or asked me to do.

 

 

Is it normal?

 

 

 

Like I really wanna be give my best. Be my best self.

[Tayken]

(Pardon me the cheesy face next to the title, I have honestly no idea how it get it there. Seriously.)

 

 

I feel that way. I even start to freak out, if I haven't done something what they have told or asked me to do.

 

 

Is it normal?

 

 

 

Like I really wanna be give my best. Be my best self.

 

You must be male...am I right?

[Evening]

You must be male...am I right?

 

Why would you think that?

[SomeDude16]

(Pardon me the cheesy face next to the title, I have honestly no idea how it get it there. Seriously.)

 

 

I feel that way. I even start to freak out, if I haven't done something what they have told or asked me to do.

 

 

Is it normal?

 

 

 

Like I really wanna be give my best. Be my best self.

 

I'm sure it's normal. But on a personal note, I'd say it's my biggest flaw. Sometimes I put other peoples intrests before my own, and it hurts you in the long run. You must be careful and conscious...

[angel.eyes]

I try to give my best in my relationships, and I enjoy being with guys who inspire me to do so. To me, it's the most awesome part of a good relationship.

 

I'm glad you're with someone who makes you feel this way!

[Dontfindme]

I feel like if we were our best selves in all relationships - not just ones with lovers - we could have richer, more meaningful lives.

 

I can't think of a way it would hurt anyone. But also - obviously look out for yourself too.

Be your best self with you.

[Allumere]

(Pardon me the cheesy face next to the title, I have honestly no idea how it get it there. Seriously.)

 

 

I feel that way. I even start to freak out, if I haven't done something what they have told or asked me to do.

 

 

Is it normal?

 

 

 

Like I really wanna be give my best. Be my best self.

 

 

You should always want to be your best self. Being in a relationship should have nothing to do with it.

 

Now as far as freaking out if you haven't done something if told or asked to do something (assuming in the context of a relationship) this could be viewed a few ways. 1) you are looking for approval/validation. Don't take this the wrong way, this example us just the best I have at the moment. A common training technique is a reward system. If the dog sits when asked he gets a treat. If you do what is asked you get a gold star 2) it is important to you to honor your partner and 3)the dynamics of the relationship are so screwed up you are fearful a "mistake" will result in negative consequences.

 

Only you know if any of the above apply

[Tayken]

You should always want to be your best self. Being in a relationship should have nothing to do with it.

 

Now as far as freaking out if you haven't done something if told or asked to do something (assuming in the context of a relationship) this could be viewed a few ways. 1) you are looking for approval/validation. Don't take this the wrong way, this example us just the best I have at the moment. A common training technique is a reward system. If the dog sits when asked he gets a treat. If you do what is asked you get a gold star 2) it is important to you to honor your partner and 3)the dynamics of the relationship are so screwed up you are fearful a "mistake" will result in negative consequences.

 

Only you know if any of the above apply

 

Ding ding ding.....but it's not cool and doesn't make for Facebook chat because everybody else is in relationships and apparently they are doing great thanks to the facade' they project

[elaine567]

Why would you think that?

 

Because he hates women, maybe???...

[Tayken]

There are REAL women, and then there are just women. I prefer the former to the latter