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Thanks with the last post...but she is getting worse(since the last post). one of her friends saw me deleting my recent call list(i like to keep it organized so only people i call the most are on it) and she told my girlfriend,now i think that she thinks I'm cheating on her.

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I saw in your other post that you are wanting out anyway, so maybe you should just break up with her. If she thinks you are cheating, there's pretty much nothing you can say or do that's going to change her mind. I expect she picked up on the fact that you want out (many people can tell when that's happening) and she just put that together with the fact that you deleted your call list and assumed that you were cheating.

 

I guess what you do now depends on how long you want to draw out the inevitable, since you know that you want to break up with her anyway. You can either

 

a. try to explain what was going on with the phone and drag out your relationship further

b. cut your losses, break up now and put it behind you

Posted

sorry, that does sound like a weak excuse, but i don't think it necessarily means you're cheating.

 

just end it anyway, it's nothing but problems.

 

then you can organize and delete til your heart desires. :rolleyes:

Posted

I clear my call lists all the time. It's meaningless in itself. But she's probably picking up on other cues too.

 

If you aren't cheating, offer to show her your cellphone bill. That is, if it is itemized. And if you care to keep her.

Otherwise, stop jerking her around and end it already.

Posted

Does your nickname stand for "Racial Holy War" as made famous by the white crusaders and other various white power/klu klux klan organisations?

 

Or am I completely mistaken?

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