Jord11 Posted December 26, 2014 Posted December 26, 2014 I've been talking with a girl everything was fine all of a sudden she just wants to be friends right now, I got asked by another girl to go out for New Years with her should I go ? I don't want to wait around for the other girl and lose an opportunity with someone else is that the right thing to do
coolheadal Posted December 26, 2014 Posted December 26, 2014 Just friends means just friends only. You are free to go out with whoever you want. This one who is just a friend only can do the same thing. Your not bond to each other as your are nothing more than just friends only! 2
dumbass2 Posted December 26, 2014 Posted December 26, 2014 The other girl asked you to New Years. She is interested in you! You should go. The other girl is just a friend now by her choice. Here's the deal though. You make plans to go with this other girl, then do not break those plans if the other comes around and asks what you are doing and wants to go with you. Do not offer up what you are doing on New Years if she asks, you can just say that you have plans if she did ask, but do not volunteer information. You are just friends. 4
EgoJoe Posted December 26, 2014 Posted December 26, 2014 Go out with the interested party and tell your other friend this exactly, "I think you're cool but I was interested in you. Bring friends is a consolation prize and I'm not interested in settling." Say that only if she initiates anything. 2
RedButton Posted December 26, 2014 Posted December 26, 2014 Go for it! Go out with this other girl and see what she's like, you might find you like her a lot more than the one who just wants to be friends! 1
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