Jord11 Posted December 26, 2014 Posted December 26, 2014 I'm just friends with a girl because that's all she wants right now, I've been recently talking to another girl and she asked me to go out for New Years with her I want too but is that the right thing to do because I was close with the other girl but she just wants to be friends at the moment and I don't want to miss an opportunity with someone else because I'm waiting to see if there could be more what should I do
callingyouuu Posted December 26, 2014 Posted December 26, 2014 I'm just friends with a girl because that's all she wants right now, I've been recently talking to another girl and she asked me to go out for New Years with her I want too but is that the right thing to do because I was close with the other girl but she just wants to be friends at the moment and I don't want to miss an opportunity with someone else because I'm waiting to see if there could be more what should I do Have fun on NYE with the new girl. You and your friend are just that: friends. 1
Frank2thepoint Posted December 26, 2014 Posted December 26, 2014 The only opportunity you would be missing is the girl that wants you to join her for NYE. The girl that only wants to be friends, will not be available to you for a long while, probably not at all. Don't put your life on hold for some girl that isn't ready.
Danda Posted December 26, 2014 Posted December 26, 2014 When we humans tell someone we want to be "just friends" it means one of three things: 1. We really do want to be just friends, and you need to move your butt onward to other potential mates if you want to keep your friendship with us, because pushing for romance when we don't see you that way is going to ultimately make us uncomfortable and cause us to pull away entirely. 2. We want to have multiple options (sex or romance, or both) on the table, and so we don't want to commit to you, but we also don't want you to move on to anyone else. We just want to keep you in our menagerie of pining potentials for as long as we deem it enjoyable. You should move your butt onward to other potential mates because duh. 3. We have insecurity hang ups and need you to jump through hoops of fire to prove to us that you really do want to be our SO, while we protest the whole damned time, and chances are that even after you've burnt your sleeves off and face-planted on the circus stage floor, we will still find some other reason as to why we just can't trust your intentions, anyway. You should move your butt onward to other potential mates because duh. In ALL three possible scenarios, there is no reason for you to not go out with this gal on NYE and have a ****ing blast.
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