nonplussed Posted December 26, 2014 Posted December 26, 2014 I had a date set up for later today. I put her address last night on google maps but realized its a big apartment complex and she left out her unit number. I texted her to ask her last night and also to confirm our date but she hasn't responded yet. I sent her another text this morning and still nothing. What should I do ??? Date is in 6 hours.
most_distant_galaxy Posted December 26, 2014 Posted December 26, 2014 I had a date set up for later today. I put her address last night on google maps but realized its a big apartment complex and she left out her unit number. I texted her to ask her last night and also to confirm our date but she hasn't responded yet. I sent her another text this morning and still nothing. What should I do ??? Date is in 6 hours. Its some rude lady you got there. Don't go to the date...
Author nonplussed Posted December 26, 2014 Author Posted December 26, 2014 I don't think it's intentional its a brand new complex so she just moved in. If she used to live in a house it wouldn't surprise me if she left out her unit number but I hate that she's not texting back. She actually approached me first about this date why would she flake on her own idea..?
Frank2thepoint Posted December 26, 2014 Posted December 26, 2014 She actually approached me first about this date why would she flake on her own idea..? Because some people do some wonky sh*t. Welcome to the wonderful world of dating. Just give her a phone call (not text message) an hour or two before the date, and ask. Hopefully she picks up. If not, leave her a message. If she doesn't get back to you, then don't go. 1
aggie382 Posted December 26, 2014 Posted December 26, 2014 Have you ever met this woman? How'd you meet? I bet she doesn't want to give you her exact unit number, and will meet you at the complex clubhouse, or something like that. That's what I've done in the past.
coolheadal Posted December 26, 2014 Posted December 26, 2014 Sounds like she's not interested. But to confirm this do call her later not in the morning. She might be getting her beauty sleep? If she doesn't answer the phone or your text? DO NOT GO!
Author nonplussed Posted December 26, 2014 Author Posted December 26, 2014 Well I texted her at 9P last night and 10A this morning. Still nothing. Last text from her she seemed really eager and hinted at sex I dunno what happened. So should I contact her one last time or give up for today and text her next week to set up another time ? I definitely want to see her again (its actually date 2 but I didn't pick her up last time go figure).
coolheadal Posted December 26, 2014 Posted December 26, 2014 Why you had a second date plan but you don't know her unit number? Send a text first then call after it. But wait until you get answer? If you don't know the Unit number or you don't have a name then you stay put!
losangelena Posted December 26, 2014 Posted December 26, 2014 If you're just picking her up, why do you need the unit number? It could be that there's a call box and the entrance and you can just look it up by name. Her flaking could be a possibility, but I'm all for giving the benefit of the doubt. It's been 12 hours. Give her a little more time.
mangetout Posted December 26, 2014 Posted December 26, 2014 OP leave it. She has had a change of heart and hence why she is not answering your texts messages.
veggirl Posted December 26, 2014 Posted December 26, 2014 I wouldn't go. You texted her twice and no response. Don't waste your time getting ready and driving there. i also wouldn't contact her again.
Tayken Posted December 26, 2014 Posted December 26, 2014 I had a date set up for later today. I put her address last night on google maps but realized its a big apartment complex and she left out her unit number. I texted her to ask her last night and also to confirm our date but she hasn't responded yet. I sent her another text this morning and still nothing. What should I do ??? Date is in 6 hours. Show up at the apartment complex early, and check the name directory in the lobby.
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