lauren13 Posted December 26, 2014 Posted December 26, 2014 I just wanted to share that I managed NOT to break NC over Christmas! I thought it'd be difficult (which it was; also because he sent me a dumbass text) and I really wanted to talk to him, but I did no such thing and I know it was the better choice. I also have LS people to thank for! I came on here right after my bf left me for his abusive ex and the advices and perspectives I got really put me in a better place! So thank you all! 2
dumbass2 Posted December 26, 2014 Posted December 26, 2014 NC is great if used for the right reasons. It appears that you are in a place where you are using it because you know you need to move on and he is not worth it, so in this case it will get easier for you going forward. If you find it getting real tough to handle if he sends you something, then you should block all communication channels. When people use it to try and get their ex back, it more often then not backfires and slows down the healing process and moving forward. Keep it going! 1
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