alphamale Posted March 24, 2005 Posted March 24, 2005 Women are so funny . So last nite I went to this singles card party and met this cute chick and we seemed to hit it off, ya know, flirting, touching, eye contact, etc.... At the end of the evening I said lets get together sometime and she takes my business card but does not give me her contact info. Now this is usually the kiss of death 95% of the time cause the woman never calls. While driving home I think to myself that i should of taken my card back from her cause there is no way she will call me cause they almost never do when they don't give you their digits. SO I get into work this morning at 8am and an email is waiting from her. I respond back and ask her out for dinner on Sat Apr 02 and she write back saying she'd love to go. But if she was interested all along why did not she just give me her # in the first place? WTF?
Author alphamale Posted March 24, 2005 Author Posted March 24, 2005 Originally posted by tanbark813 Maybe she's homeless. most homeless women don't have $300 Gucci handbags
whichwayisup Posted March 24, 2005 Posted March 24, 2005 Maybe she's homeless. That's actually really funny! But if she was interested all along why did not she just give me her # in the first place? WTF? Are you serious Alpha????????? You have to ask?
Beth Posted March 24, 2005 Posted March 24, 2005 Did you ask her for her number & she refused? Did she ask for your card-or did you offer it?
EC Posted March 24, 2005 Posted March 24, 2005 OMG it doesn't take a brain surgeon...because ALPHA she already had yours! No but seriously, sometimes I like getting the guys number first when Im interested so that I don't have to be the one waiting for the phone call...I'm very impatient. Maybe she is as well?
tiki Posted March 24, 2005 Posted March 24, 2005 Originally posted by alphamale most homeless women don't have $300 Gucci handbags Unless, of course, it's spelled Guccie. - Or unless she's living in it. Who cares alpha, be glad she contacted ya! YAY for you!
Linlin Posted March 24, 2005 Posted March 24, 2005 Because we liked to be chased Alpha!! You should know this by now. Us high maintenance girls, want the boys to make the first move sometimes!
tiki Posted March 24, 2005 Posted March 24, 2005 She works better over email. Some hos are like that.
EC Posted March 24, 2005 Posted March 24, 2005 Or maybe she liked ya so much...ya made her soooo nervous she forgot and didn't even think about it. Its happened to my guy friend. He met a great girl at a party had so much fun with her, and then got so nervous when he had to leave that he said bye and left and completely forgot to get her number. I remember asking so when are you going to call her? His reaction:
Author alphamale Posted March 24, 2005 Author Posted March 24, 2005 Originally posted by Beth Did you ask her for her number & she refused? Did she ask for your card-or did you offer it? I offered her my business card over some work ruse thing cause she works in IT also and she is looking for a new position in computers. Then after giving her my card I said "hey, we should get together sometime, do you have a business card?" She said that she did not have any business cards in her purse but she did say, and I quote "I'll call YOU". then i come in this morning and there is an email from her. surprised the shyt outta me.
EC Posted March 24, 2005 Posted March 24, 2005 then i come in this morning and there is an email from her. surprised the shyt outta me. And you liked it!
whichwayisup Posted March 24, 2005 Posted March 24, 2005 then i come in this morning and there is an email from her. surprised the shyt outta me. LMFAO!!! At 39 you would have said..."I knew there would be an email from her..." Geez, ya turn 40 and you're questioning s*** already huh?
Author alphamale Posted March 24, 2005 Author Posted March 24, 2005 Originally posted by whichwayisup LMFAO!!! At 39 you would have said..."I knew there would be an email from her..." Geez, ya turn 40 and you're questioning s*** already huh? No I am not questioning anything, WWIU, it is just that almost always when a woman does not give a man her contact info it means she is not interested. I have had this happen a few times in the past (2 or 3x) where a woman took my info, did not give hers, but did in fact contact me and we went out. It is very rare, however.
EC Posted March 24, 2005 Posted March 24, 2005 I have had this happen a few times in the past (2 or 3x) where a woman took my info, did not give hers, but did in fact contact me and we went out. It is very rare, however It is rare....Usually when I was single and a guy would hit on me and I was not interested I would get his information and say I'd call and never did. I just took his info to be nice. Maybe she was going to do that but she was like screw it..I need something/someone to do.....
Pocky Posted March 24, 2005 Posted March 24, 2005 Originally posted by alphamale No I am not questioning anything, WWIU, it is just that almost always when a woman does not give a man her contact info it means she is not interested. I have had this happen a few times in the past (2 or 3x) where a woman took my info, did not give hers, but did in fact contact me and we went out. It is very rare, however. Well I hope this is a learning lesson to you ALPHA when you respond to future posts. Some women just don't fit in your little book of Alpha's Rules and Regulations .
Illusion24 Posted March 24, 2005 Posted March 24, 2005 She didn't give you her info so that you won't call unexpectedly, she also did it to have control of the whole situation...I'm like that...I don't like to give to much to soon and I like to have the ball in my court... She probably wanted to contact you when she was ready too...Or the bomb shell, she might not want you to call her randomly because she may be seeing someone else too... But alpha, who cares you got a date...go with the flow...just roll with it !!!
Author alphamale Posted March 24, 2005 Author Posted March 24, 2005 Originally posted by EC Maybe she was going to do that but she was like screw it..I need something/someone to do..... yeah thanx EC. there are some things I'd like to do to her breasts cause they are huge!
CurvyGurl Posted March 24, 2005 Posted March 24, 2005 Women don't give out their phone numbers these days because men are insane. I never give my # out until after I have talked to him a few times.
Linlin Posted March 24, 2005 Posted March 24, 2005 Try not to screw it up with your machoisms???? Is that even a word???
Author alphamale Posted March 24, 2005 Author Posted March 24, 2005 Originally posted by NeverSayNever She probably wanted to contact you when she was ready too...Or the bomb shell, she might not want you to call her randomly because she may be seeing someone else too... good points N.S.N., or maybe she is living with some dude or married? no wait a minute, she sent me her home phone # and home address by email.
Linlin Posted March 24, 2005 Posted March 24, 2005 Try to leave her breasts alone on the first date!! Seriously, when did you turn 40???
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