Lostrabbit Posted December 25, 2014 Posted December 25, 2014 I've had 2texts from my ex in the last 2days one today wishing me happy christmas and thanking me for a gift I left at his moms for his niece and one yesterday asking if I was around on boxing day as he ha got me a gift that he wants me to have. It's been 26days since BU and he is already seeing someone else and was from 2days before he split with me. I'm sure he's only text me to absolve his own guilt. Do I a: Part of me is tempted to tell him not to bothering don't want to see him. B: part of me is tempted to tell him to just drop represent off when I'm not there and enjoy not giving him a response but seeing what the gift is- it may be something I can burn? Hehe C: tempted to let him bring it round and tell him to his face I don't want his pity present or indeed anything else as he doesn't deserve my time or appreciation anymore. I'm not going to shout or argue as he's not worth the effort or knowing I care that much. What do you recon? On the plus side I think I am finally developing the anger stage as opposed to sheer devastation and pining!! But that may change by the morning
welshbambi Posted December 25, 2014 Posted December 25, 2014 A - this is a good one. B - it shows him that you are still curious about him and if he is trying to see if you are "back burner" material, it will give him confirmation and the go ahead to string you along. Possibly C - your anger will get the better of you and although you will say to him you don't care, the fact it has invoked ANY emotion will say otherwise. Option D - just don't respond at all?
Zahara Posted December 25, 2014 Posted December 25, 2014 Ignore him. Cheating on you since he was with someone two days before ending with you. Shut the door and move on. 1
FancyFace Posted December 25, 2014 Posted December 25, 2014 Don't entertain him or his breadcrumb presents. Don't respond, matter of fact, block him and try to move on. Him and his cheap gift aren't worth any effort from your part.
EgoJoe Posted December 25, 2014 Posted December 25, 2014 In your situation anything short of I'm an idiot and I'm sorry. With no request for anything is unacceptable contact.
dumbass2 Posted December 26, 2014 Posted December 26, 2014 He's seeing someone else. Don't bother replying at all. You should not be in contact with him. you should not be in contact with any of his family. He chose someone else over you. He started seeing someone else while you were together. That should make you angry enough to stay far away and work on finding yourself someone that is in to you and wants you for who you are. 1
Author Lostrabbit Posted December 26, 2014 Author Posted December 26, 2014 I haven't responded so far but Egojo that was kind of my D option telling him only idiot is not the word I would use and he'd have to do a lot more than just say sorry!
coolheadal Posted December 26, 2014 Posted December 26, 2014 Move on! There is no more H.O.P.E! Just fake relationship! Don't let the Ex control you with holiday gifts you never wanted in the first place. Ex friend, Ex lover, Ex false hope. He's just controlling your life now if you don't put a final RED MARK on this chapter. END IT NOW! Move on and get on with your life!
Author Lostrabbit Posted December 26, 2014 Author Posted December 26, 2014 I'm not hoping I think he's a coward and I don't need his influence- I was merely pointing out that the terms 'idiot' and 'sorry' just wouldn't cut it as I'm done
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