tito1501 Posted December 25, 2014 Posted December 25, 2014 I met a girl 2 months ago and we are starting to have something "more serious". We study at the same city and now we are apart for holidays (1 month). We are texting very often , she always texts me more than I do, we share pictures but we have never used Skype. However, I never know if I should text her something because maybe I will show that I am being clingy (this is not good for a guy). I just don't understand her, actually most women are like this, they are very talkative one day and the other day it seems they do not want to talk that much, and when it happens, I don't know how to approach her, I really overthink. For example, today I sent her a message saying that I had bad dream last night, and I remembered that I once told her I had never had bad dreams. She asked me about the dream and I am explained her; she just replied "Ohhh, that is really horrible" My point is: She ALWAYS asks a lot of things and keeps talking to me. What should I do when she becomes more 'silent'? I chose not to text anything until she comes and talk to me, because this last answer of her do not need a reply from my side. I just want to know if that is rude. Maybe I should suggest that we use Skype, but I also think that, as she is a girl, she is the one that should suggest it.
organizedchaos Posted December 25, 2014 Posted December 25, 2014 I met a girl 2 months ago and we are starting to have something "more serious". We study at the same city and now we are apart for holidays (1 month). We are texting very often , she always texts me more than I do, we share pictures but we have never used Skype. However, I never know if I should text her something because maybe I will show that I am being clingy (this is not good for a guy). I just don't understand her, actually most women are like this, they are very talkative one day and the other day it seems they do not want to talk that much, and when it happens, I don't know how to approach her, I really overthink. For example, today I sent her a message saying that I had bad dream last night, and I remembered that I once told her I had never had bad dreams. She asked me about the dream and I am explained her; she just replied "Ohhh, that is really horrible" My point is: She ALWAYS asks a lot of things and keeps talking to me. What should I do when she becomes more 'silent'? I chose not to text anything until she comes and talk to me, because this last answer of her do not need a reply from my side. I just want to know if that is rude. Maybe I should suggest that we use Skype, but I also think that, as she is a girl, she is the one that should suggest it. Where are you learning all these "rules" about what she should be doing? And have you actually asked her out on a date? There is nothing "serious" about anything here.
Author tito1501 Posted December 25, 2014 Author Posted December 25, 2014 Where are you learning all these "rules" about what she should be doing? And have you actually asked her out on a date? There is nothing "serious" about anything here. We have had a lot of dates so far, she was always sleeping at my place. Maybe there are no rules, I just think that sometimes girls change their way of texting or replying and I feel I should give her some space as she never replied just that and that's it.
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