Trenton100 Posted December 25, 2014 Posted December 25, 2014 So the girl Im dating I'm learning is very easy going. It doesn't matter to her what we do because she isn't picky. I love that because I don't feel like I have to put on a front or do anything outlandish to impress her. I saw her the other day for about 15 minutes and we had a nice kiss. We are going to see each other again this weekend and she's just as excited as I am. What I don't know is when to make the next move if you know what I mean. Not sex but the next step to it. A part of me wants to go full blown making out but ita only been about 3 weeks this weekend. It's like for some reason Im treading very lightly because I don't want to mess this up. I don't even know why I'm making this thread. You would think someone who has been use to being with someone (married for 14 years) would know exactly what to do. And she was with someone for that amount of time too. This should be a piece of cake. Instead, I have no idea what to do. Should I let her make the moves? I don't know. So far though, I dig her. She isn't pushy or asking for anything while at the sane time, making the effort to see and talk to me. She even asked today "is it the weekend yet?" It's been a long time since someone appeared to be excited about seeing me. 1
Dontfindme Posted December 25, 2014 Posted December 25, 2014 It sounds like you guys are getting along well. Why not just make moves when it 'feels right' - or is that too ambiguous? 2
Author Trenton100 Posted December 25, 2014 Author Posted December 25, 2014 It sounds like you guys are getting along well. Why not just make moves when it 'feels right' - or is that too ambiguous? Nah, sounds right to me. I'm over thinking it. 1
Otter2569 Posted December 25, 2014 Posted December 25, 2014 Keep up the good flirting and on your next date it should just happen if it was meant to be. Good luck and keep us posted!! 2
losangelena Posted December 25, 2014 Posted December 25, 2014 Is this the "multi-dater?" You sure seemed to get over that in a hurry. Don't let her make the moves—you make them. She'd appreciate it, I'm sure. Do what feels natural, you won't get docked points. Don't let your desire to "not mess up" send you in paralysis. 1
Tayken Posted December 25, 2014 Posted December 25, 2014 @OP.....I am glad to read this, and it seems like you've bagged yourself a unicorn of some sort. She is equally interested, and even contacting you as opposed to leaving all the moves to you and then playing that stupid hard to get game. I am sure 3rd base is going be electric by the sound of things. 1
kolleamm Posted December 25, 2014 Posted December 25, 2014 Just have fun, don't over think it. You won't mess it up if that's what you're afraid of. 1
Author Trenton100 Posted December 26, 2014 Author Posted December 26, 2014 @OP.....I am glad to read this, and it seems like you've bagged yourself a unicorn of some sort. She is equally interested, and even contacting you as opposed to leaving all the moves to you and then playing that stupid hard to get game. I am sure 3rd base is going be electric by the sound of things. Oh...it was.
elaine567 Posted December 27, 2014 Posted December 27, 2014 There you go ...hattaboy Are we still in high school? Or are you an overgrown frat maybe? Trenton100 I am very pleased for you, that it is all going well. 1
Tayken Posted December 27, 2014 Posted December 27, 2014 Are we still in high school? Or are you an overgrown frat maybe? Trenton100 I am very pleased for you, that it is all going well. Whoa....personal attack. Glad to see that you followed me I don't know where you are still at, but I know I am way ahead of you in life and probably seen more of the world than you. Cheerio
Author Trenton100 Posted December 27, 2014 Author Posted December 27, 2014 Whoa....personal attack. Glad to see that you followed me I don't know where you are still at, but I know I am way ahead of you in life and probably seen more of the world than you. Cheerio To be fair dude, I mean...I'm not bragging about it. I'm simply happy things are progressing. 1
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