Redhead14 Posted January 14, 2015 Posted January 14, 2015 Met a girl online. We texted for about a week and decided to meet for a first date. She texted me a few days before and said she could not find a sitter for the date and would either need to bring her or reschedule. I told her I didn't mind her bringing the child along if she felt comfortable. I met her and her daughter for dinner and we had a good time. After dinner she suggested maybe we could take a walk and chat. We were at a mall so we walked around for about an hour and went into a few stores. After that we got a coffee and chatted a bit more. Eventually I walked her and the little girl back to her car. She gave me a hug and suggested we do it again and told me her days off. When I got home she texted and said she had a good time and confirmed she would like to see me again. I said maybe Thursday which was her next day off. She was busy that day with cleaning and Christmas stuff so she suggested Sunday and I agreed. We continue to text everyday with both of us initiating the conversation. When Sunday came we had not yet finalized our plans but had thrown out some ideas. She texted and said if I felt it wasn't too soon I could just come to her place and we could decide what to do from there. I agreed so she sent me her address. I show up and we decide to take her daughter to the zoo to see the Christmas lights. It was another good time but we really didn't get to talk as much as I had hoped. She offered to pay for her and her daughters tickets but I declined and paid. She didn't want me to think she was just looking for free dates. Anyway after the zoo we got back to her place. Her daughter is asleep and she says she's going to take her to bed and says with Christmas this week she doesn't gave any free time but we can set something up for the week after. I agree we hug and I head home. Since then we still text but she has not initiated any conversation. Maybe it's because she is busy like she said, but my gut is saying something is different. Am I reading too much into thus? I'd my insecurity rearing it's ugly head? I'm just not sure how into me she is at this point. She's responded to you. Just because it's not as extensive a conversation as you would like, it still shows interest. She told you she's busy, that's what you should think is going on. Nothing from what you've said above tells me your gut is a reliable source for whether or not to worry.
Author Eddie007 Posted January 19, 2015 Author Posted January 19, 2015 My gut was right. We had our 3rd date tonight and she dropped the "just friends vibe" on me.
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