OddFuture Posted December 24, 2014 Posted December 24, 2014 So I was just wondering, How does everyone feel in regards to remaining in contact with an ex partner via social media? Is it something you wouldn't be bothered by? would you have to remove them as a friend? or just possibly block them if the break up ended badly? Im currently facing a dilemma on whether to block an ex of mine in case it come across as childish. My mind says yes but my pride says no.. so what does everyone think? Background story We broke up 3 years ago and hes never let me fully recover from the breakup (meeting up, sleeping with each other, making future plans etc). Ive had enough after him hurting me for the last time. I want to block him on Whatsapp/Snapchat (he removed me on Facebook a year ago). I've not blocked him yet as i thought letting him see what i was up too would show him i can live life without him. Weve not spoken since Halloween although hes tried messaging me and ive ignored all his messages.
NopeNah Posted December 24, 2014 Posted December 24, 2014 Yep...delete. my ex thought it was "childish" for me to delete her...nope! Like I care to see her with other guys,ect! Pass! 1
DontBreak Posted December 24, 2014 Posted December 24, 2014 Praying4daylight is right no good will come of you seeing him on Facebook Besides he doesn't get that pleasure of nosing in your affairs anymore I blocked my ex I don't want to see her with new guys won't do me any good
Author OddFuture Posted December 24, 2014 Author Posted December 24, 2014 Praying4daylight is right no good will come of you seeing him on Facebook Besides he doesn't get that pleasure of nosing in your affairs anymore I blocked my ex I don't want to see her with new guys won't do me any good What makes you think he doesnt care about what i do anymore?? do you think he only contacts for his physical needs?
DontBreak Posted December 24, 2014 Posted December 24, 2014 NC all the way is the way to go I tried to do it half assed I even told everybody on here I'd be fine it really stung me in a big way - all or nothing Just trying to help 1
Author OddFuture Posted December 24, 2014 Author Posted December 24, 2014 Ok! removed him off everything now, thanks for the help
DontBreak Posted December 24, 2014 Posted December 24, 2014 It seems so final but I wish I'd done this from the start instead I made a fool out of myself - don't make my mistake - stay strong x
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