zachsack Posted December 23, 2014 Posted December 23, 2014 So I was texting my crush. When she replied she told me that I seemed mad, and it's been like that for weeks. After I apologized (I never was mad) she got over it. But I'm not sure. And how does she feel about me? Here's how it went: Me: haha it's fine Her: u seem like ur mad at me Her: it seemed like that for weeks Me: oh. No what I be mad for (her nickname that I call her) Her: I don't know u seem like it! Me: how did it seem to you? (At this point, she did not reply.) Then, Me: (nickname)...I don't want to leave thinking I hurt your feelings. I was never mad at you. In sorry if it seemed like it. Her: it's okay thanks. Me: so we're cool now? Her: yep Me: you don't sound sure. Her: I rlly am (At this point I change topics and ask how her break was to ease off what had happened.) Also, she usually doesn't use so many acronyms.
spiderowl Posted December 24, 2014 Posted December 24, 2014 Is she still in touch with you? Does she sound free and happy texting with you? If so, she has accepted that you are not mad with her. If there was something you said that did make her feel you were angry, then that's the bit we haven't heard. If she's still in touch, then best to meet up with her as soon as possible to see if there is a still a warm connection in real life. Texting can get very impersonal and people can think the other is cooling off when they are just unsure where it goes next. 1
Satu Posted December 24, 2014 Posted December 24, 2014 Texting causes far more problems than it solves. Tone of voice, body language, eye contact, touch, all missing.
Rainbowlove Posted December 24, 2014 Posted December 24, 2014 Texting sucks except for...did you pick up eggs and are you on time. Texting is not intended to be a real form of communication. Pick up the phone and call her or go see her. Skip the texting apologies. 1
Author zachsack Posted December 24, 2014 Author Posted December 24, 2014 Texting sucks except for...did you pick up eggs and are you on time. Texting is not intended to be a real form of communication. Pick up the phone and call her or go see her. Skip the texting apologies. It's a bit late for that. I'm halfway across the country. I have never aid anything mean to her. Neither did I that day. She said it seemed like that for "weeks".
Assada Posted December 24, 2014 Posted December 24, 2014 You sound like a doting sap, to be absolutely honest. Never apologize for doing nothing wrong. Never double text. proves that youre needy. This chick barely cares about you. Thats how she feels
Author zachsack Posted December 24, 2014 Author Posted December 24, 2014 You sound like a doting sap, to be absolutely honest. Never apologize for doing nothing wrong. Never double text. proves that youre needy. This chick barely cares about you. Thats how she feels I don't see how my double text shows that I'm needy.
d0nnivain Posted December 24, 2014 Posted December 24, 2014 Just be cheerful when you are around her. Rely less on texting. Talk & laugh together more.
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