Author mangetout Posted December 24, 2014 Author Posted December 24, 2014 moocher, yes, she should have paid half for a sht night because it led him nowhere except to rejection Hmm. Think you got issues lol 2
Author mangetout Posted December 24, 2014 Author Posted December 24, 2014 Wow. You sure know your mark pretty well. I was going to say that a true man always pays and always drives and always opens the door and always lets her complete first. But after reading this post of yours, it frightens me how well you know his finances. It seems like you were the one who was uber disappointed about him being such a socially inept dud and you can't share in his 86,000 pound salary and 3 houses and all that jazz. You actually know his salary to the pound. Amazing. Stop counting salaries that aren't yours and just enjoy yourself. P.S. 86,000 pounds a year is not a lot of money. You must be hovering above the poverty level if you think it is. Excuse me OP but my date was the one who had to declare to me how much he earned. He was the one who showed me pictures of his assets. I never asked how much he earned. What makes you think that I need a man to pay my bills? You are right. £86 k isn't a lot of money. I earn a lot more than that
Author mangetout Posted December 24, 2014 Author Posted December 24, 2014 Wow. You sure know your mark pretty well. I was going to say that a true man always pays and always drives and always opens the door and always lets her complete first. But after reading this post of yours, it frightens me how well you know his finances. It seems like you were the one who was uber disappointed about him being such a socially inept dud and you can't share in his 86,000 pound salary and 3 houses and all that jazz. You actually know his salary to the pound. Amazing. Stop counting salaries that aren't yours and just enjoy yourself. P.S. 86,000 pounds a year is not a lot of money. You must be hovering above the poverty level if you think it is. But to be realistic. £86k is a lot of money in the UK. The average salary here is £17k
Author mangetout Posted December 24, 2014 Author Posted December 24, 2014 Wow . Good for you on blocking him. Who really does that?! Some who who has a lot of low self esteem as far as I am concerned.
Author mangetout Posted December 24, 2014 Author Posted December 24, 2014 Come on let's be realistic here. If my date wants half because he didn't get what he wanted then why not demand half of what someone invested in a relationship that didn't work out?? The reason I am on here is because my ex cheated on me while we were engaged. Why don't I demand half of the the time and money I invested into that relationship? Because That's life! It's a gamble. I am not gonna be petty and demand lost money for a relationship that didn't work out . To the guys who are bitter about this... Grow up 2
bathtub-row Posted December 25, 2014 Posted December 25, 2014 Excuse me OP but my date was the one who had to declare to me how much he earned. He was the one who showed me pictures of his assets. I never asked how much he earned. What makes you think that I need a man to pay my bills? You are right. £86 k isn't a lot of money. I earn a lot more than that I dated a guy like this once. And only once. On the entire date, all he talked about was how much money he made, the car he drove, and other boring details that had no depth whatsoever. He was completely shocked that this conversation didn't land me in bed. 1
bathtub-row Posted December 25, 2014 Posted December 25, 2014 I had a date with a guy at a restaurant and we met at the bar for drinks. After sitting there for about an hour, he asked me if I wanted dinner, so we left the bar and got a table. It wasn't until later that he told me that if he hadn't liked me, he planned to end the date after having drinks. I thought that was pretty clever.
Rydo Posted December 25, 2014 Posted December 25, 2014 I had a date with a guy at a restaurant and we met at the bar for drinks. After sitting there for about an hour, he asked me if I wanted dinner, so we left the bar and got a table. It wasn't until later that he told me that if he hadn't liked me, he planned to end the date after having drinks. I thought that was pretty clever. Tbh this is pretty standard if you date a lot, especially OLD. 2
darkmoon Posted December 25, 2014 Posted December 25, 2014 Hmm. Think you got issues lol so what do you think the guy's point of view is?
Rydo Posted December 25, 2014 Posted December 25, 2014 so what do you think the guy's point of view is? He was on a date, he offered to pay. If he wanted a guarantee for his money he should have hired an escort. 6
darkmoon Posted December 25, 2014 Posted December 25, 2014 He was on a date, he offered to pay. If he wanted a guarantee for his money he should have hired an escort. that is your point of view, but not his - what do you think his pov is?
Author mangetout Posted December 25, 2014 Author Posted December 25, 2014 that is your point of view, but not his - what do you think his pov is? Lol I think you are just trying to wind people up. If you don't get it then there is no hope for you. 1
Author mangetout Posted December 25, 2014 Author Posted December 25, 2014 I dated a guy like this once. And only once. On the entire date, all he talked about was how much money he made, the car he drove, and other boring details that had no depth whatsoever. He was completely shocked that this conversation didn't land me in bed. I think some men think that having money is a turn on for some women. Well it's not for me because I make my own.
guest569 Posted December 25, 2014 Posted December 25, 2014 Wow, makes you wonder if he really does earn the big bucks, to ask for his half of the bill back!! Haha that is ridiculous. I have never understood the whole "well i didnt get a 2nd date, what a waste of time and money". Seriously? Just what is the goal, to buy sex, to buy a persons love and affection, pay your way to your engagement? I dont get it. Wow, Pine thinks 86k is just above the poverty line? How out of touch. 1
guest569 Posted December 25, 2014 Posted December 25, 2014 I think some men think that having money is a turn on for some women. Well it's not for me because I make my own. I find it really awkward when they go on about their money, shares, pricing of assets. I really don't want to talk about that stuff so early on. I think it shows insecurity. It's really inappropriate. 1
Author mangetout Posted December 25, 2014 Author Posted December 25, 2014 that is your point of view, but not his - what do you think his pov is? How about this: Maybe my date should be more honest in future by telling me what his agenda is when he offers to pay the bill. He should have said this to me" I will pay the bill so long as I am a guaranteed sex. But if I don't then let's split it otherwise I will harass you the next day for the other half" 1
Author mangetout Posted December 25, 2014 Author Posted December 25, 2014 that is your point of view, but not his - what do you think his pov is? Why was this man trying to get me into his car? He was clearly after one thing
Author mangetout Posted December 25, 2014 Author Posted December 25, 2014 Wow, makes you wonder if he really does earn the big bucks, to ask for his half of the bill back!! Haha that is ridiculous. I have never understood the whole "well i didnt get a 2nd date, what a waste of time and money". Seriously? Just what is the goal, to buy sex, to buy a persons love and affection, pay your way to your engagement? I dont get it. Wow, Pine thinks 86k is just above the poverty line? How out of touch. My thoughts exactly. The restaurant wasn't an expensive one either. And yes Pine is definitely out of touch
Author mangetout Posted December 25, 2014 Author Posted December 25, 2014 I find it really awkward when they go on about their money, shares, pricing of assets. I really don't want to talk about that stuff so early on. I think it shows insecurity. It's really inappropriate. He said these things to make him look more attractive. But he proved to be a hypocrite by being tight the next day 1
darkmoon Posted December 25, 2014 Posted December 25, 2014 Lol I think you are just trying to wind people up. If you don't get it then there is no hope for you. am merely taking the guy's side, but you give no straight answer to my question - i will try another what is the it that you say i need to get?
Author mangetout Posted December 25, 2014 Author Posted December 25, 2014 am merely taking the guy's side, but you give no straight answer to my question - i will try another what is the it that you say i need to get? Have you read all my posts. Cause then you will get it
BluEyeL Posted December 25, 2014 Posted December 25, 2014 It happened to me too, in 2013. I don't offer to pay my half if I like the guy. But I offer if I don't like him. I insisted, he insisted. When I turned him down for a second date, he asked for the money. I sent him cash in an envelope, and an extra $5 on top of that, so he can go buy himself a consolation hamburger. At least, when we parted ways, he walked straight into a pole while saying goodbye lol 2
BluEyeL Posted December 25, 2014 Posted December 25, 2014 Ah and dinner was at Applebee's, it cost low 20s for my half, and I added $5 as tip for him. I didn't want a second date because I found him mean. The entire date he badmouthed a bunch of people I didn't know and bragged how he took revenge on X or Y person. Also, I couldn't get in a word edgewise, I was about to shoot myself, that's how bad date was. The pole walking was the Unierse's way to make it up to me with a hilarious moment. I laughed all the way home. 4
Tayken Posted December 25, 2014 Posted December 25, 2014 It happened to me too, in 2013. I don't offer to pay my half if I like the guy. But I offer if I don't like him. I insisted, he insisted. When I turned him down for a second date, he asked for the money. I sent him cash in an envelope, and an extra $5 on top of that, so he can go buy himself a consolation hamburger. At least, when we parted ways, he walked straight into a pole while saying goodbye lol Really ....why not if I may ask? @OP....I feel for you, but as someone else already mentioned up thread, dinner / movie for a meet n greet is always a bad idea. This is something you do after you have both decided that you want to see each other again. Oh, and it makes sense to split the bill or at least one of you takes care of the tip.
darkmoon Posted December 25, 2014 Posted December 25, 2014 Have you read all my posts. Cause then you will get it yes, but still no straight answer here - one more time - what the it that you say i do not get? just say...
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