Danda Posted December 27, 2014 Posted December 27, 2014 I have large areolas on B/C hooters so a "nip slip" can happen easily with me when it might not for some other women. When I think of my nipple I think of the tiny, pointy part in the middle. I can't actually feel the dark pink circles sliding out of a low-cut top if I bend over, so if I am not staring down at my own boobs, I won't notice if it happens. Women with smaller areolas would probably notice if they're slipping into the 'danger zone' since they can equate their actual nipple with the pigment around it. If practically her whole boob is hangin out then yeah she's probably aware. 1
RedRobin Posted December 27, 2014 Posted December 27, 2014 (edited) Really??? Maybe I should be less paranoid about mine, then. confidence is sexy http://assets.nydailynews.com/polopoly_fs/1.1192113.1351187750!/img/httpImage/image.jpg_gen/derivatives/gallery_635/atsuko-kudo.jpg That's a look that larger breasted women would have a hard time pulling off and still appear elegant. Edited December 27, 2014 by RedRobin 2
somedude81 Posted December 27, 2014 Posted December 27, 2014 confidence is sexy http://assets.nydailynews.com/polopoly_fs/1.1192113.1351187750!/img/httpImage/image.jpg_gen/derivatives/gallery_635/atsuko-kudo.jpg That's a look that larger breasted women would have a hard time pulling off and still appear elegant. Thats the problem I have with the fashion industry. It's classy and elegant when small busted women wear something like that but if a buxom woman wore that it suddenly be seen as trashy and photographic because somebody who has no attraction to women said so.
still_an_Angel Posted December 27, 2014 Posted December 27, 2014 If you have smaller breasts I can see how this can happen. Smaller chested women can wear all kinds of tops that are more slinky and skimpy and also can go bra-less which can allow for an accidental nipple slip without them noticing. However, if you have bigger boobs, like me, you don't go bra-less and you can't wear certain tops so it's very unlikely you'll be in that position but for smaller breasted women I can definitely see it happening. So true! I can go bra-less and not worry about it, except when there's a sudden change in temperature and the little headlights come on full blast. Depending on the top I'm wearing, it won't be a problem, I can just hunch my back and carry on.
thefooloftheyear Posted December 27, 2014 Posted December 27, 2014 Twice in recent memory.... First time, I am at the beach with my kid and this woman(mid 20's)was walking out of the water and her bikini top had fallen off one breast..>A bunch of people started giggling, and she didnt realize it..I gave her a hand gesture about her top being down and she immediately fixed it.. Second time was intentional, IMO...I go to get my truck washed on a lazy summer saturday...Mostly guys there...The woman cashier, a middle aged hispanic woman wearing a top that was about 5 sizes too small for her robust body, had the top 1/2" of her very dark areolas showing...I said nothing...paid them and left.. Eh, between the times when I was a little kid and my aunt used to stay over, drink too much, wear a loose night gown with no bra, her tits falling out, the women I have been with, plus the fact that I worked for some time in a strip club, ive seen a lot of bare breasts.....and like they say, if you have seen two...you have seen 'em all....:laugh: TFY
acrosstheuniverse Posted December 27, 2014 Posted December 27, 2014 I have 32DD and there's literally no way I would have a nipple exposed without realising. Unless I was SEVERELY drunk. We know. Then again I don't often wear low cut tops or show cleavage, so I would already be hyper aware of the fact that so much cleavage was on show and therefore be more aware of any possible issues with nipples. However, depends on your definition of 'exposed'. I had a boyfriend who was super jealous, about anyone else seeing my body. He would get obsessive and upset if I wore a skirt, a low cut top or anything like that. One example would be when we were sat outside a gig waiting for the doors to open, and I pulled my bra up (it was uncomfortable due to the underwiring). I don't know if other ladies know what I mean, but sometimes when you're pulling your bra up you kinda pull it away from your body a couple of millimetres, to make sure that when you pull it up your breast stays in, and the bra actually covers more up rather than just going back to its original position. Anyway, he turned that into a humongous argument, saying that 'any guy in the queue could have seen your nipple, the way you pulled it away from your body like that'. Nobody did. Nobody was in eyeline of it. But because he didn't like the way I moved my bra, he was obsessed for the rest of the night with the idea of me 'flashing' other guys.
MissBee Posted December 27, 2014 Posted December 27, 2014 I have super duper perky c-ds that dont sag. I could easily have a nip slip. I go braless, but usually if I do I wear a jacket. I have to be careful about shirts cut in certain ways. I did have a nip slip in the wave pool years ago. I dont think ive had any slips since then. My breasts are bigger than c-ds, they aren't saggy but I never go bra-less in public and cannot wear certain tops and doubt I'll have a a nipple slip on an average day. But in a bikini in a wave pool, it's possible. It probably would be a whole breast slip though and not a nipple slip. But I'm always paranoid about that and the types of bathing suits I wear are well secure so it hasn't occurred yet. I think the bigger your breasts are, and I guess big is relative, because in my head C cups are "normal", you pay attention to your breasts more and I just feel like having your nipple slip would be very unlikely or if it occurred you'd not go without noticing.
MissBee Posted December 27, 2014 Posted December 27, 2014 I have 32DD and there's literally no way I would have a nipple exposed without realising. Unless I was SEVERELY drunk. We know. Then again I don't often wear low cut tops or show cleavage, so I would already be hyper aware of the fact that so much cleavage was on show and therefore be more aware of any possible issues with nipples. However, depends on your definition of 'exposed'. I had a boyfriend who was super jealous, about anyone else seeing my body. He would get obsessive and upset if I wore a skirt, a low cut top or anything like that. One example would be when we were sat outside a gig waiting for the doors to open, and I pulled my bra up (it was uncomfortable due to the underwiring). I don't know if other ladies know what I mean, but sometimes when you're pulling your bra up you kinda pull it away from your body a couple of millimetres, to make sure that when you pull it up your breast stays in, and the bra actually covers more up rather than just going back to its original position. Anyway, he turned that into a humongous argument, saying that 'any guy in the queue could have seen your nipple, the way you pulled it away from your body like that'. Nobody did. Nobody was in eyeline of it. But because he didn't like the way I moved my bra, he was obsessed for the rest of the night with the idea of me 'flashing' other guys. I hope you dumped that guy...
acrosstheuniverse Posted December 27, 2014 Posted December 27, 2014 I hope you dumped that guy... Oh, I did. After four years. I was young and willing to overlook the jealousy for the good parts of the relationship for the most part, although I couldn't have stuck it out much longer than I did. I still believe to this day he wasn't necessarily an abusive, nasty piece of work, rather he was a mess of insecurities, he was so petrified of me leaving him that he would go into overdrive trying to minimise the opportunities for it to happen. Which is the same for most abusive partners to be honest, only I never got the sense he got a sadistic thrill from controlling me, only that he was so scared of me acting the way I wanted to he allowed himself to constantly give me these spoken and unspoken ultimatums about things so simple as wearing a bathing suit to the beach, or seeing a male Doctor. Seriously. I wouldn't stand for even a hint of it in partners now, I learnt a lot. But it has left tiny mental scars, for years I felt guilty whenever I wore a dress or went swimming, took me a while to realise it's because I'd been conditioned to feel that way, if I felt guilty I wouldn't do it because I wanted things to be smooth between us and never wanted to upset him. Nowadays I wouldn't stand for a twentieth of that behaviour so I guess it was a learning experience at least.
RedRobin Posted December 28, 2014 Posted December 28, 2014 Thats the problem I have with the fashion industry. It's classy and elegant when small busted women wear something like that but if a buxom woman wore that it suddenly be seen as trashy and photographic because somebody who has no attraction to women said so. Everyone is obliged to dress for their body shape and make the most of their assets. No one can pull off every style with equal effect, and that is how it should be.
spanz1 Posted December 28, 2014 Posted December 28, 2014 In regards to seeing an erect nipple through clothing. Seriously? That is something we are worried about? Sheesh. I am not aware of it the nip slip ever happening with me but I keep the girls covered and I am not not super blessed. everyone is talking as if seeing erect nipples is something bad. I assure you, men LOVE to see erect nipples thru "flimsy" material. that is a goal to strive for...not something to hide in shame! 1
Els Posted December 28, 2014 Posted December 28, 2014 confidence is sexy http://assets.nydailynews.com/polopoly_fs/1.1192113.1351187750!/img/httpImage/image.jpg_gen/derivatives/gallery_635/atsuko-kudo.jpg That's a look that larger breasted women would have a hard time pulling off and still appear elegant. I agree that confidence is sexy, but man, that style is WAAAYYY too 'in your face' for my taste! I was thinking more along the lines of something like this or this. 1
Danda Posted December 28, 2014 Posted December 28, 2014 everyone is talking as if seeing erect nipples is something bad. I assure you, men LOVE to see erect nipples thru "flimsy" material. that is a goal to strive for...not something to hide in shame! Women are constantly bombarded with two messages: 1. If you don't show off your body then you can't attract good men. 2. If you show off your body then you will attract bad men. In a nutshell. It comes in a wide variety of forms, in both cases. But both messages clearly indicate that the way we reveal or don't reveal our bodies has literal control over the thoughts/behaviors of men. We still live in a culture where if a woman is showing a lot of cleavage and gets disrespected or even assaulted, there will still be plenty of people insinuating that it was at least partially her own fault. Yet at the same time a woman who shows up to a date in a very conservative sweater and pants could easily be dismissed as 'uptight' and so on. It's very similar to how we get 1. Women make me mad because I have to go through all these obstacles to have sex with them and they use it to manipulate / power play. 2. Women who have sex with several men are gross / immoral / otherwise less valuable. It's also amazing how quickly the tides can turn depending on whether or not a guy likes you anymore. When you're giving him sex then he admires and high-fives your 'free love' mentality. If you decide to move on then you're just a dumb whore. If a guy likes you then your erect nipples showing through your shirt are awesome. If he doesn't like you then you're an attention-seeking bimbo. Female sexuality is still a very sharp double-edged sword. It makes us great one moment and horrible the next. It inspires appreciation from one man, and outright contempt from another. From one woman to another, we often don't know whether to be jealous of or protective of a more 'revealed' fellow female. She's getting more attention, but she could also be in danger. And then at the same time we want to encourage her self-acceptance. Frankly the result is often akin to having a stroke. I honestly think it's a ballpark that men can't truly understand, since men don't get dressed to go out with thoughts like, "Is this too revealing?" or "Will this get me the right kind of attention?" or "Does this shirt make me look slutty?" or "Is too much of my penis showing if I wear this?" or "I hope nobody shames or disrespects me if I wear this." It's way easier to just not deal with it at all, which I firmly believe is the deeper, underlying reason so many women these days are "letting themselves go" or otherwise not seeming to take much pride in their appearance. Truth be told many of them are trying to hide and just not have to worry about it. Whether they are hiding under excess body fat or a frumpy sweater and sweatpants, it's because a can of worms from hell is opened whenever a woman tries to be attractive (but not too attractive now, and not the wrong type of attractive, careful everyone). Men who are able to appreciate the female body without feeling entitled, shaming or ever throwing it back in a woman's face - you guys are rarer than you might think and more valuable than you might think, as well. So don't take it personally when some women seem to be totally hung up on something like nipples and shirts. It's thanks to all your less-than-stellar brethren out there. Just take it as a reminder that you're probably more awesome as a man than you might think you are. 6
Maleficent Posted December 28, 2014 Posted December 28, 2014 (edited) It's not always our fault, and it's not always deliberate. Besides, most bras are made of flimsy fabric. If nipples show, blame the designers and manufacturers, not the women. Nono, it's totally our fault for having nipples. Edited December 28, 2014 by Maleficent
MissBee Posted December 28, 2014 Posted December 28, 2014 everyone is talking as if seeing erect nipples is something bad. I assure you, men LOVE to see erect nipples thru "flimsy" material. that is a goal to strive for...not something to hide in shame! LMAOOO @ a goal to strive for. Well if you're in a professional setting or going about your business as usual, I assure you, you're not going to be striving for men to see your nipples and to start thinking of you sexually but want to be viewed as a person with things to say and things to achieve and to be taken seriously in a professional environment or to be left alone to live your life if you're just at the mall. I know when I want to look sexy versus when I'm inadvertently being stared at in a sexual way because of something I can't help and the latter can be very uncomfortable.
RedRobin Posted December 28, 2014 Posted December 28, 2014 I was just thinking about my very beautiful friend who has no problem breast feeding her child amongst a group of friends after a little dinner party. It was refreshing to see her so unselfconscious. Every inch of a woman seems turned into something sexual or at someone else's discretion except her own. Nipples happen. They happen for men too, and in cold climates, they wear t shirts or jackets when in a professional setting. No big deal.
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