Jimmyjackson Posted December 23, 2014 Posted December 23, 2014 I feel in a great place now. I am happy again, I've been sleeping with someone else, going out with friends, going to the gym etc; I feel my old self again. With every day that passes I miss her less and less, I still do a little but I think that's normal right? There's no urge to contact her, but there hasn't been for a while to be honest (2 months NC). I read my old threads and find it funny, I feel like I've come a long way looking back at them, I was a mess. However, I'm sort of at this stage now where I'm beginning to accept the situation more and more, but then it kinda hits me that I've accepted it's over and she's a distant memory. It's like I'm getting over it for the most part but I feel a little weird when I realise I am, if that makes sense?
Michael 93 Posted December 24, 2014 Posted December 24, 2014 Exactly the same there Jimmy. Not nice is it? But that's the thing man.. It's just how it goes, it eventually fades away. That's what I think is the saddest part about it. Its as if it never happened. But that is what is required when you loved someone so deeply. You need to dull it out and focus on your own happiness. Until you get to a point where you are indifferent, it is not necessary to remember the memories. When you are once again happy and in a stable relationship and (hopefully) in love (we hope) you will look back on the relationship and smile. Right there with you Jimmy. The feeling of it fading away is a weird one to face. This past year has taught me so much, and made me realise humans can feel pain in places I didn't even know existed! All the best man and have a good Christmas. Michael
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