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Do girls actually try to make guys that they like jealous?


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I get mixed signals from this girl i've liked for a while. I think she might be a little interested in me, just maybe not as much as I am interested in her. She is always talking about this guy she thinks is hot and asks her friends if she should text him, but it's always within an earshot from where I'm standing. I swear she does it so I can hear it. Even though she is not talking to me directly, i get a sense that she wants me to hear it. I think she's a little self conscious, and she might be trying to sound more appealing to me. Either that or I'm way off and she's trying to tell me she's not interested.

 

Either way, she seems to laugh at my jokes and I catch her checking me out sometimes. I kissed her once, but I doubt she remembers anything ( she drank excessively that night). Then another time when I had too much to drink she hooked up with another guy. Who knows, maybe it was to make me jealous. I've never been good at making the first move or telling a girl how I feel. Sometimes if we're all out I'll drink a lot to try to work up some courage. I know for sure that i've turned down chances at hooking up with some of her friends to not blow it with her. I think she's been around the block a few times, but oh well nobody's perfect. What is your opinion? And how do you think I should go about making a move on her?

 

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I know about 6 months ago she really liked some other guy (different from the guys above). I was really into her at that time and was disappointed when I found out. But I've seen her a bunch of times since then and I haven't even hear his name mentioned, so I guess that's a good thing.

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Immature girls probably due this. Mature women do not.

 

I don't do this as I assume it will turn off interested quality men. I know I'm a catch, and they do too. I don't need to do anything to remind them of it. :cool:

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yes, girls do this, all the time. you are very naive to ask.

 

Now, smart girls, if they are interested, will find a way to let you know they're a little "hard to get" -- without making you jealous at all!

 

Believe me, that is fun!

 

P.S. be a little hard to get yourself, the smart ones appreciate it.

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I play hard to get right back at her. I don't act like it bothers me at all when she mentions how hot other guys are.

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Just ask her out. Keep it simple and just be straight with her. She'll like that about you. That 'hard to get' game, is just her way of making you work a little to get her. Nothing wrong with that! She doesn't want you to think that she's easy to get.. If it seems like she likes you, then she probably does.

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Girls do the biggest mind games sometimes but not all girls do this. If you really like her and she does this ignore her tonight and tomorrow then casually say hey.

 

Don't cave.

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I think it's all in your head...

 

This chick is just living life and you're interpreting everything she does as it "somehow" is related to you.

 

If I was interested in a guy, last thing I'd be doing is randomly hooking up with guys if I'm trying to get him to notice me. Quite frankly, I'd be worried that he might interpret me just going to the corner store as me going out on a date. I would want him to know that I'm available.

 

Also, playing devil's advocate here, if she indeed was talking about other guys in earshot of you with hopes you hear it, she sounds like an immature child. And, also playing devil's advocate here, who would go to such extremes as random hookups to get a guy's attention?

 

Again, I think this is all in your head. She's just a flaky chick jumping in and out of guy's beds. I don't see what's attractive/alluring about that.

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Why has it been 6+ months and you haven't asked this girl you like out?

 

Maybe she's given up on you and figures you don't like her so that's why she's looking at/talking about other guys. She figures you wouldn't care. If you did, you have asked her out long ago.

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