johnnysalami Posted December 22, 2014 Posted December 22, 2014 (edited) Hey guys I will be as detailed as I can without being to drawn out.Three months or so ago,I started talking to a young girl 18 who just got dumped by her pretty boy boyfriend gross.We started as friends hanging out painting we are both into graffiti art,I did intend on just being friends but graffiti art is my Passion. She looks to me for guidance as she is just starting.I told her I liked her after hanging out once and I get the I'm not over my ex yet, but as the weeks go by she ends up liking me I hear it from a mutual friend.We hung out maybe 3 other times but only twice alone. She tells me she needs reassurance and her other ex "our mutual friend" told me the same so I tried to reassure her without being needy at all.Casual text and calls,I end up going across town to meet with her one night and she flakes, well she says she got stuck at her cousins and has no ride which might of been true but anyway we get in a huge fight stop talking. We made up two nights ago, we hang out at my house alone but I still cant get a kiss well I get two kisses on the cheek after she wanted to borrow my marker and I told her thats the only way I'm going to let you. I think she does like me but I'm not chasing her anymore I'm letting her contact me its just what I feel is right.She is super cute and has guys following her around like lost puppies,I refuse to be another one.Am I wrong for thinking this way?She is also very immature when we hang out so I'm half as interested to be honest But still think about her alot alot I guess its the chase. I would love any input guys! Thanks, Edited December 22, 2014 by johnnysalami
Michelle ma Belle Posted December 22, 2014 Posted December 22, 2014 I'm not sure what the problem is actually. She made it clear that she just wanted to be friends. Just because you heard "it" from a mutual friend that she likes you doesn't mean she wants to be in a relationship with you or that you're even IN a relationship at all apart from a friendship. Unless you've had the exclusivity talk, she owes you nothing and from what I can decipher, she isn't doing anything wrong. If anything YOU'RE the one that's getting your signals crossed interpreting things that just aren't happening. You're assuming much.
Author johnnysalami Posted December 22, 2014 Author Posted December 22, 2014 I asked her straight out do you like me more than a friend?and she says she does so there is a problem.
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