OCCDAVE Posted March 24, 2005 Posted March 24, 2005 I'm depressed cause i'm 21 and it seems i will die lonley but if that wasn't bad enough both my parents can't stand me and my brother hates me.I know your saying then move out well ya i can but no job and my problem is since losing all my friends i'm severly depressed and i think i suffer from hdd or however you spell it.Reason i suspect i do is i always need attention even sometimes i bug my mom even if it's just saying hey mom i love you .I also cry a ton by myself cause i hate how my life has turned out and how i'm honestly a loser.The only reason i'm still alive is i'm afraid to do anything so as dumb as this sounds when i go outside i'm always hoping a bus or something just hits me .Finally i wouldn't feel this bad if my family weren't such a**h***s cause you figure blood is thicker then water well in my guess it doesn't matter Btw i forgot to mention when i'm mad most times i punch myself in the head is this maybe one of the reasons i'm messed up
moimeme Posted March 24, 2005 Posted March 24, 2005 Have you ever seen a doctor or counsellor about this? When you feel this way, you need a professional to help you.
Author OCCDAVE Posted March 24, 2005 Author Posted March 24, 2005 honestly no only cause my parents hate me as is if i go to my mom and say i'm depressed my sisters who she brain washed will be like ohhh please you just want attention and they will have a good time laughing about it
snilljente Posted March 24, 2005 Posted March 24, 2005 Go to a school counselor or pastor, someone outside of your home who will take you seriously.....You have alot of years ahead of you and this is only temporary..I PROMISE that life can change drastically for the better...I too have been seriously depressed before and am now in a really good place...hang in there....and talk to someone asap....don't try to keep everything inside...you need to get it out...
moimeme Posted March 24, 2005 Posted March 24, 2005 So go to a doctor or school counsellor. Go to your priest, minister, or rabbi. I'm sure your parents don't hate you, but you are having problems with them. You can also call a helpline.
Vagabond Loner Posted September 6, 2005 Posted September 6, 2005 I'm going through a rough time too right now. I hope you can deal with your problems.
Skeered Posted September 6, 2005 Posted September 6, 2005 There are so many help lines and counselors out there do not feel alone in this. You are a mere 21 you have soooooo much life to live yet and to feel this way that it's depressing you to this level is so sad....go get help talk with someone...your family doesn't hate you and for whatever reasons you feel that your friends don't like you, well then they weren't your friends... Chin up...we are here for you...but please go get some help from a professional...
flyhigh Posted September 8, 2005 Posted September 8, 2005 How long have you felt like this? Is it everyday or just when something goes wrong? Something has 2 trigger these feelings you have of being unwanted. To me You seem to feel trapped in a world that you don't want to be apart of anymore, and you seem to be slowly ..slowly giving up on yourself and the people that you are living for. You are letting everyones opinion of you base the way you feel about yourself. When you feel like dieing do you cry wondering if those you seek approval from will miss you when and if your gone? ........ Does that bring tears to your eyes ...just thinking about it? you know your not alone out there.... I know you think that your the only one who feels this way or who is going thru what you're going thru at this moment ..but you know your not ... YOU AREN'T ALONE OUT THERE people do care about you and love you. I know you have heard this one before "Try not to take everything so personnal". It may sound like just a bunch of words but it's true... You have to learn not to take things soo personnal. ....and stop hitting yourself hun.... not only are you brusing yourself on the inside you are hurting yourself on the outside. Hang in there and don't give up
suegail Posted September 9, 2005 Posted September 9, 2005 Your parents can't stand you; your brother hates you. (I really doubt that, but, anyway...) You wouldn't feel so bad if your family weren't 'such a**h***s' You've decided to blame everyone around you for your problems and I think that's really a shame. You mentioned that you don't have a job. That in itself can be depressing. Well, try and get out there and find work. Get as busy as you can and it will help your state of mind. Check in to taking some classes or some sort; make some decisions about your future or at least begin seriously thinking of what you can do. Trade school? College? These are all things you can do. What I'm saying is you are responsible for yourself. I've known people who go through their whole life feeling everyone else is responsible for their happiness. If they fail at anything, it's not their fault, according to them. It's the fault of the idiots who didn't help them. It's a wrong attitude to have. Believe that. I hope you will because you are so young. Don't despair. Believe in yourself and what you can do. I'm sure you can... "Most people are about as happy as they make up their minds to be." ABRAHAM LINCOLN
betterwife Posted September 9, 2005 Posted September 9, 2005 I Will Advice You To Seek Help From An A Pastor Or Conselor. Please Don't Give Up On Yourself.
ThatOneGuy Posted September 9, 2005 Posted September 9, 2005 Well, There are two options you can currently follow. Like the other people said, You can go to some sort of profesional, And seek their help. Or, You can just be as agressive as hell in turning your life around. Listen buddy, you may be in a hole right now, But you obviously seem to have some inteligence. Im sure if you looked hard enough, You can find a nice job, Move out, Find some friends, And lead down that path of life. It's never too late to fight for your future, And say goodbye to your past.
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