Jimmyjackson Posted December 22, 2014 Posted December 22, 2014 I'm really drunk and listening to the band we went to see on valentines day, I miss her so much. Someone help me out? feeling extremely sentimental.
mtnbiker3000 Posted December 22, 2014 Posted December 22, 2014 Put on different music. Your favorite band. The one she hated!!! 4
d0nnivain Posted December 22, 2014 Posted December 22, 2014 Alcohol is a depressant. In the long run it will make you feel worse & more maudlin. You drink to forget & dull the pain but it can have the opposite effect. The pain is part of the healing process. You have to grieve the loss of the relationship to get over it. Changing the music is probably a great start 1
Light Breeze Posted December 22, 2014 Posted December 22, 2014 Keep your phone in a place where you can't see it. You don't want to drunk dial. Believe me. 1
santac Posted December 22, 2014 Posted December 22, 2014 Well I'm not probably the right guy to say this, but alcohol won't bring any good. It makes you more depressed rather than happier when you are already sad. No matter what people say "drink and forget your sadness..." thats bs. 1
Author Jimmyjackson Posted December 22, 2014 Author Posted December 22, 2014 If there's one thing I've learned, it's that drunken thoughts are sober ones. I think when you're drunk you feel certain emotions in certain moments but they aren't of much significance. I've woke up today laughing at this thread haha, I feel fine now. Just thought I'd post in here last night than contact my ex, however stupid of a thread this may be.
d0nnivain Posted December 22, 2014 Posted December 22, 2014 You did the right thing. Hope your hangover is not too bad. 1
Author Jimmyjackson Posted December 22, 2014 Author Posted December 22, 2014 Aren't sober thoughts sorry *
d0nnivain Posted December 22, 2014 Posted December 22, 2014 Aren't sober thoughts sorry * Eh . . I don't know about that. In vino, veritas. In wine, there is truth.
Satu Posted December 22, 2014 Posted December 22, 2014 Don't indulge in the excessive use of alcohol. It's not good for you.
Author Jimmyjackson Posted December 22, 2014 Author Posted December 22, 2014 Don't indulge in the excessive use of alcohol. It's not good for you. Well, it was my works night out. I disagree, all I said was I was missing her when drunk...as long as I don't contact her there isn't really any problem. So I will continue to get drunk over the festive period.
RedButton Posted December 22, 2014 Posted December 22, 2014 Get drunk as long as you are having fun and drinking responsibly. I stopped drinking around the age of 21~23 because I realised every time I got drunk I got depressed rather than happy. You probably had a great time with friends and then when you got back home started to feel a little blue or something. I think that's normal. I've been lucky, I can listen to music I listened to with my ex and still enjoy it. I considered changing the music early after the breakup but then decided "No, dammit, she's not taking my favourite music away!" and listened to it even more.
Author Jimmyjackson Posted December 22, 2014 Author Posted December 22, 2014 Eh . . I don't know about that. In vino, veritas. In wine, there is truth. Yes and no. I think when you're drunk you're obviously not thinking clearly and you can confuse certain emotions, feel things and say things that aren't necessarily true.
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