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Why is he not adding me on Facebook?


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It's strange how Facebook has changed our lives. Friending / unfriending / not friending someone has become this cardinal sin and the ultimate insult to someone. We're all back in high school again over this. Ha ha ha ...

 

 

To answer your question, he doesn't want to see what he's up to. If you are 4 months into something and he still doesn't want to add you, he's keeping his options open and things as casual as possible. You should as well if he's doing this.

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I never add any guys with whom I have casual sex, casual dating, or just plain dating with.

 

You just mentioned that you guys were casually dating each other so I dont see any reason why he should add you on fb.

 

Second, he adds the other girls pethaps he likes them more than you? Or perhaps he has not succeeded in banging them yet, so he's making an effort to impress them via his virtual life on FB? Or maybe, he has better connection/chemistry than you.

 

It doesnt matter what he thinks or does. What matters is that I see you falling in love/gradually fall into this guy, which will eventually cause a heartbreak for you.

 

Once you start casual with a guy, it's highly likely he will never change his mind to dating you serious. Especially, in your case, after 2 months nothing has progressed, I'm 1000% sure it never will.

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I don't care what anyone says and the excuses you guys come up with.. someone refusing to add you on their facebook is a big red flag.

 

I disagree. I have only added two women that I've been romantically interested in on FB. There have been women that I've been friends with on FB that turned into more - but only 2 that started out as romances. One I deeply regretted adding. The other is my GF now.

 

Ya - I was all about NOT adding any women that I might date or am dating.

 

That being said - I think in this case this dude isnt into the OP.

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