sophitia Posted December 21, 2014 Posted December 21, 2014 It has been 7 months since my break up. It was my first serious relationship ever and I thought I had moved on. I had moved out of state and started a new life. It turns out, an old friend of mine moved out to the same city and invited me to her holiday party. Everything was all sunshine and rainbows until I got there. The girl that my boyfriend cheated on me with happened to make the transition as well and was co-hosting the party (how does that even happen). In the short time that I was there, she was treating me completely different than the rest. She was treating me like I was a problem and leaving me out of things on purpose. Due to these actions, it started bringing back horrible feelings and making me remember how hurt I was over the relationship. In the end, I felt extremely insecure and I hate this feeling. I did my best to act like I didn't care, but as soon as I got home, I just couldn't shake the feeling. It feels awful and I feel like I'm not good enough anybody.
Liz0800 Posted December 21, 2014 Posted December 21, 2014 Hi, it's perfectly understandable why any one would have felt like you did. You handled yourself with dignity. What a horrible non feminine woman. Aren't you glad she's not your friend. You weren't let down. She let herself down. So glad you walked away and don't engage in a hostile match with her. It doesn't matter but I guarantee one day, she will be in your shoes and experience the horrible place you are at. Hold your head high and keep putting one foot in front of another in the other direction and leave the bag of much way behind you. The door is open...you just don't know what miracle is waiting ...trust the process L
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