Lightmetoday Posted December 21, 2014 Posted December 21, 2014 Hey people those of you , who had a long deep love for first time in your life , but got dumped after a loong relationship of say 4 yours. When you fell in love with someone else after few years , how is the feel ? Do you develop same strong bond as you had before?
d0nnivain Posted December 21, 2014 Posted December 21, 2014 The bond is different because the people are different. You have changed & grown. The new person is not your EX. The bond may be equally stronger or stronger but it's not the same.
Author Lightmetoday Posted December 22, 2014 Author Posted December 22, 2014 Yes not the same. Time & age matters. What happened before was with ex. In future what will happen, will not be with ex, So it has to be different
Redhead14 Posted December 22, 2014 Posted December 22, 2014 Hey people those of you , who had a long deep love for first time in your life , but got dumped after a loong relationship of say 4 yours. When you fell in love with someone else after few years , how is the feel ? Do you develop same strong bond as you had before? I will tell you this . . . I was married for 30 years and loved him deeply. We divorced but we still care very much for each other, it just changed. But he was at one time "the one". After I divorced, I was engaged for two years and he passed away. But that time he was "the one". I am now with a new "the one". Each one is different and brings their own special ways to the relationship. I loved each one and their differences. There were similarities because I am drawn to certain "types" in terms of personality, but each one is/was special. There may not only be one "the one".
central Posted December 22, 2014 Posted December 22, 2014 My second long term relationship (marriage in both cases) is far, far better in every way than my first. That pretty much says it all, except that what I thought was love the first time around wasn't reciprocated, and so was a pale imitation of real love.
Author Lightmetoday Posted December 22, 2014 Author Posted December 22, 2014 My second long term relationship (marriage in both cases) is far, far better in every way than my first. That pretty much says it all, except that what I thought was love the first time around wasn't reciprocated, and so was a pale imitation of real love. This is similar to my case, my love was not reciprocated by her , She didn't care for me . She dont want me back. I am leaving her , I will marry someone who will love me back. This is insane falling in love with your friend , she taking advantage of your emotional needs & then saying we are just friends,
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